From Wikipedia definition : A family (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated either by consanguinity (by recognized birth), affinity (by marriage or other relationship), or co-residence (as implied by the etymology of the English word “family”) or some combination of these.
Secondly the word “family” can be used metaphorically to create more inclusive categories such as community, nationhood, global village, and humanism.
Based on my personal reflection on a sermon taken today all throughout in the Catholic Church. Today was a celebration in the Catholic Church tagged “HOLY FAMILY”. The holy family comprise of Joseph, Mary and Jesus. The preacher gave detail explanation on the holy family based on the trust love and faith they have for each other.
The preacher was able to give a simple definition on family I quote what he said “a family is a group of people bonded together by ideology, belief, Religion, association, workplace and blood”
Family is bonded by a common goal. What is that goal? That what I will explain as I move further.
Am here not to contradict any one about my little or personal view about the family concept.
I will take each step as I explain what a family really look like in our society in this 21st century.
BASED ON BIRTH
When a child is given birth to, that child belong to a family by birth. What bonded them together is what really matters. Which are two basic things I love to thrive for peace and love.
BASED ON IDEOLOGY
Family bonded together in terms of ideology can be scientist, educationist, inventors, freethinkers, philosophy,bloggers and writers
I will narrow mine down to the writer and bloggers here. We are bind by one idea in terms of inspirational write up post, Artistry photo post, life write up post and so on.
We are again bonded in term of views, Comment and likes. Bind together in terms of our personal view on what we post, what we comment, and how we feel for liking the post.
We bind again as Word press community………so that is family also and that is my family also.
Without family we don’t have a word press community. As a follower we meet and join together as one here in term of followers.
People who follow you. How do you treat them as part of the community?
I guess it should be also that my slogan “peace and love”. The ideas we share and post make us move on with life, those ideas can touch someone far and near to us.
The ideas can be food write up, love write up. Peace write up life write up, poem write up and so on.
But for us to achieve that goal here as a blogger community we need to remember that slogan always “PEACE and LOVE”. Which is important.
BASED ON RELIGION/BELIEF
Bonded by religion is also a part of the family I have to analyze here….
We are one. Been created by a supreme being which we worship in our own ways depending on you religion or belief
What you belief depend on which family you will fall. So therefore we are bonded by religion in term of family which include Christian, Islamic, Buddhism Judaism
Without such family we not be hearing different religion.
But in inside this religion they are division using the Christian view as a point … We have different denomination like Pentecostal. Catholic. Anglican. Each denomination has their own way of worship that is totally different. But what bind us is that name we bear as Christians.
But what keep us together is to strive for that goal which is “peace and love”. When love exist peace will come in and vice versa.
BASED ON ASSOCIATION
This covers the association we belong in our society. Whether socially or educationally, or politically.
So almost everybody has a family they belong to. Is not about the belonging, what more is about the strive to maintain PEACE AND LOVE in the association.
BASED ON WORK PLACE
Yes, family are also find there, as far you gather and share a common coal in actually a purpose for the society. You have a family there.
What are you goals in your work place?
How do others workers see you?
What are your input to them?
Do they comment positively or negatively on you?
Is your relationship to them true or false?
Summarizing it all, I can say “love and peace” still have to strive in your work place.
BASED ON BLOOD
Wow……this is why they have family in the world. Family here in blood relate to also by birth.. More is required here than the outside family.
Here “charity becomes at home”
This is the grassroots of all families. What you do tells who you are and the family you belong to.
The preacher throw a question to the congregations. “IS ANY FAMILIES PERFECT”. I was able to answer in my personal view “NO”. But I didn’t know the reason.
The preacher then answered it saying “No families is perfect as far no humans are perfect” .But we thrive to be perfect in our little ways.
So everybody should be proud of their families whether by blood/birth, association, ideology and religion/belief.
Here are some pictures to tell you how important family are:
Finally, what will keep us together as one is to learn how to make PEACE and show LOVE.
Written by:
Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka
Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor
University of Benin
http://www.facebook.com/patrickstories
Credited to:
Those who struggle to make peace and show love in various groups,society and association
Those broken families in our societies.
True, a family is created many different ways. Nice post
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Thanks for that post…yes a family is been created in any place
So what your family how do you relate now…i need your reply
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Like you said I have many families
My biological family are close bonded by love and support
My work family is bonded by a shared vision to help children and families
My blogging family..you guys..are bonded by our love of words
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Biological families bond by love….wow
Work family sharing and helping
Blogging family by love of word…
That words which touch people to like comment and view your post…
You made my day angela…….i guess you are the first that gave this post a nice comment.
Thanks alot dear angela…………
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Good evening dear,
Your personal view on family is excellent.
Thank you so much being so nice to us.
Best regards
SKS
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Thanks you understand what i mean……. The view was ok…….it was a sermon about today…
Its personal…am not talking the general…
Again i will like to be your friend ..ok sks
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I vote to all your views of the Family.
Thanks 🌷💞
Shiva
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Yes….what about your personal view?
Do you have any which is not part of what i mention…..
I know you have….
Saying it here…we learn …
Thanks dear shiva,for such comment…ok
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Hello Patrick I gave done one post on Family. You may please read it. Right now I am busy with the 31st Dec celebrations so cannot give you the link.
The title of the post is
“It is the Family that comes first” please read it. You may find it on my Ponder menu.
Thanks🌷💞💝🙏
Shiva
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Wow… You are celebrating already…….i guess you prepared my own share……remember we bloggers are wordpress family..we share ideas…..lolzzzzzzzzzzzzz
I will check on it mr shiva
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Yes we are.
The children are preparing meanwhile I find one more link for, as you talk of the WP family it pertains to that. It is my oldest of the posts when I just started.
New Year Greetings to you Patrick.
💝💞🌷🙏
https://theshivasponder.wordpress.com/2015/06/17/the-smile/
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You welcome mr shiva….i just saw it now….the graphics is cool and ok…..
Who did your site for me?
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Help me say hi to the children………..
Lolssssss….just kidding sir…….
Happy new yr in advance …enjoy the last part of the year
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i am norminating you for liebster award
https://wordpress.com/post/patrickrealstories.wordpress.com/599
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Since you are busy..sending the link we be later for you….. 😁😁😁😁😁
I agree to that
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Well how do you find my posts…🤔
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You said you gonna send it to me….i guess am waiting for the post
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Patrick I am requesting in regard to my other posts you have read.
In another 45 mins we step into 2018 in India . 😇🤗😌💞
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Ok..that is true…wow….time factor is different ……..
When you enter let me know.. I will love to upload my new year post ….lolxxxxxxxx
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Ok…..i have been norminated for a liebstar award…
Am norminating you also
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Very ok and good…that is good….i like it
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Well this is the link on Family
https://theshivasponder.wordpress.com/2016/11/28/it-is-the-family-that-comes-first/
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Ok…i will follow up that is not a problem. …i guess i will see similar things there…thanks again for the link and the post again
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Wonderful post
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Thanks for the comment….i didnt know such a post was gonna be wonderful
Just inspire by my preacher in the church today…
So i decided to write one out….
How is your coming year gonna be like……..i guess is cool with you
Bye bye 2017
Happy new year2018 in advance……………….boooooooooooooooooooooooom
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Thank you so much,
It is a wonderful post to be shared with everyone.
Hope you have a blessed new year 2018.
Thank you
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Thanks dear…….am just blessed now
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You are most welcome dear
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Thanks dear@ reemasandhu…..what is it like about the personal view of family…….
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Lovely post
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thanks for the comment, i apprecaite very much ok dear mistimaan
what is your own view on your family both at home and the society at large?
i will love to see that.
thanks again
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Cant see you comment
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Sorry for that… I can see it now…wow…..thanks for the new year picture message
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My pleasure!
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You welcome @gpcox……
What about your view on a family…i needed your comment
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I didn’t answer about family because mine are all gone, including my son, who passed while serving in the USMC. And my in-laws are distant.
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Ohhhhh. Am so sorry for that sir GP cox
How is life now…hope is cool
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good
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Thanks caroline…
Whats your view on family?
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to me family is relationship that gives you peace even if you don’t deserve it
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Yeah…..peace with love together make up a family
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yes patrick
i would love to invite you to visit my page to see some of my poems
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Ok…..i wi check it out
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I really learnt a lot from this
You can also find a real family out of your birth home that’s cool.
Only if you connect yourself with the right set of people
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Thanks for the comment, am happy you learned something about birth as part of Family.
Thanks for taking your time to read it. Really appreciate that very much.
You are welcome Miss Chidinma
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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