LESSONS ABOUT LIFE-PATRICK VIEW

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I learned something new today. You see, in life, nobody is going to help you, nobody is going to help you do what you love the most and nobody is going to help your dream, your career but yourself.
Nobody is going to help your life. But someone will surely help you someday, not every day, not every time. Someone someday will realize that you deserve the best, you deserve to be loved, you deserve to be cared for, and you deserve to get what your heart has been longing for.
And all that depends on how you behave with people, the truth you say to them, how you relate with people, how you talk to people, and how you show honesty.

 

MY PERSONAL VIEW ON THE LESSONS I  LEARNT  ABOUT LIFE

1. BE HUMBLE, EVEN IF IT REQUIRES YOU FAKING IT.

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You can fake humble but don’t show it. Don’t care about all that, just work hard, and stay humble.

2. STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF 

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when you start chasing dreams, a lot of people will change on you, they’ll turn on you, and you going to see their true colors. At last, all you can do is to focus on yourself.

3. ALWAYS MAKE PEACE  AND SHOW LOVE  

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This is one of my slogan I believe covers all things. Peace and Love is what I leant since I have grown up enough to understand things. Make peace with everyone around you. Show love to those that have to be loved also. Lastly you will found out you just  “PUT SMILES ON PEOPLE FACES”.

 

Here is a simple question for my fellow bloggers and viewers

 

what have you learnt from the lessons of life?

 

Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!

 

 

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

www.facebook.com/patrickstories

 

 

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Those who thinks life is unfair to them. Just cheer up.

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124 thoughts on “LESSONS ABOUT LIFE-PATRICK VIEW

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      Again you reply to someone comment also. I guess you happy about the post. I can see your smiling face now. Lol

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

      Thanks Miss honey8. You always with me and always showing your kind nature on my blog.

      I appreciate it very much. I guess you are no 1 here…… 😂

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    3. Totally agree when you understand you can’t please everybody and stop doing it then it is when you start living and happily.Then you get even wiser and not only you know you can’t please everybody but you also realize you don’t want to because you don’t give a s..i🤣that’s why I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals🤓

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    4. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
      This reply is based on your personal views .

      I also laugh and smile at your comment.
      As I quote from your comment “””””Then you get even wiser and not only you know you can’t please everybody but you also realize you don’t want to because you don’t give a s..i🤣that’s why I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals🤓””””””””

      Am just smiling now about it.. I guess am smiling based on”””I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals”””

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    5. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really love your comment. We can’t pleaseeveryone but we can please ourselves.

      I love the comment.
      Thanks Mr floating Gold

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    6. Yeah I still do that sometimes. Later I reason it sometimes it’s bad in the other way round. I guess balancing it is the proper way.
      Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply and comment.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I so much love this comment you just said about the post.

      I believe that also. Very true.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

  1. I have learned that I get what I earn,and seldom a dime more. I have learned that people are kind to me, most of the time, but sometimes I have to take my leave of a place, without fanfare, or even a goodbye. I have learned that being respected doesn’t mean being coddled. It’s all well and good.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i apprecaite very much.

      From your comment I guess you learnt 3 things which are

      1. I have learned that I get what I earn,and seldom a dime more. 

       2. I have learned that people are kind to me, most of the time, but sometimes I have to take my leave of a place, without fanfare, or even a goodbye. 

      3.  I have learned that being respected doesn’t mean being coddled. It’s all well and good.

      This 3 things are also applied to my life also. Especially the first one and the second one.

      I enjoyed and loved your comment very much.
      Thanks again for the comment Mrrighteousbruin9

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

  2. This is true. You were right before that i am gonna love this post. I seriously liked it very much.

    I’ve learned self love. No matter whatever happens, one person is always there with us. We ourselves. I’ve learned that human mind is one of the greatest mysteries and our thoughts make our future. Our actions make our future. What we think.. we become 😊

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful post. ✨✨

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      Am happy you find it interesting as I quote from your statement “”””””This is true. You were right before that i am gonna love this post. I seriously liked it very much.””””””””

      Hmmmm, this lesson is very inspiring “”I’ve learned self love.”””””

      That is cool of you “””I’ve learned self love.”””

      Lastly, this is where I know you have slot to talk about life, as I viewed your comment “””””I’ve learned that human mind is one of the greatest mysteries and our thoughts make our future.”””””””

      I love this one so much. I totally agree with it. It’s part of me also.

      Thanks Thanks Thanks…

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    2. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      This is what i love most “””Minds and thoughts are sometimes connected.””””
      For what you think, is what comes out of you.
      Think positive live positive

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      What have you learnt from life recently?
      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I have a simple question for you now.
      What have you learnt from your everyday life?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  3. My Lesson is:
    Not everyone on earth deserves your time and attension. There are only few real people made perfectly for you,on whom you should spend your precious time. One key aspect of leading a happy life is realising who all to value in the journey and recognizing the role they play. Distinguishing between masks and faces is the most significant task, one should accomplish…

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I guess you touch me with your first comment as I quote from your comment”””Not everyone on earth deserves your time and attension.”””””

      Secondly, not every one are alone to spend time with. So I believe in that statement also “””””There are only few real people made perfectly for you,on whom you should spend your precious time”””””

      Thirdly, living a worthy life matters again, so I learnt this from you now “””””One key aspect of leading a happy life is realising who all to value in the journey and recognizing the role they play.”””””””

      Finally, you made is clear that “””Distinguishing between masks and faces is the most significant task, one should accomplish…””””
      I enjoyed this one because many people cover there face with mask, so we do not know who is who in life again.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

      I understand what you saying. Those are your lessons about life.. Really cool.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I totally agree with the comment as I write””” I have learnt to stay without people and progress on my own…I have also learnt that friendship is not permanent and one day you will realise you are all alone….”””

      I so much agree on that. I stay without people and I also progress without them.

      thanks velvet for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear you love this blog. Many blessings to you !

      HAPPY VALENTINE

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Yeah,that is true. Special talent. Now I know you read it to the end.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Hi soni
      thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear that you read it to the end.😊 .

      Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

      Many blessings to you !

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

  4. This is beautiful and encouraging. I believe we must stay humble as well. I believe we must love fiercely even if it requires great effort. I nearly died from cancer with a prognosis of death, not expected to live past the first surgery. I was told if I did survive I would never speak or eat again. It was a terrifying prognosis but I chose to remain positive and believe for the best outcome. I am here and I do eat and speak with some obstacles. The one thing I learned in this life altering event is to Love deeply. The near death experience was humbling in itself. When I was stripped of everything else including all dignity and all else was gone there was love and that was all. I like your blog. Thank you.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Your introduction here on the comment box is quite inspiring as I state “””This is beautiful and encouraging. I believe we must stay humble as well. I believe we must love fiercely even if it requires great effort””””””

      Secondly, am been touched by your illness which lead to a near death experience.
      You strength to survive it was inspiring tonne as I type. I love that.

      Lastly, you said it all in this last one “”When I was stripped of everything else including all dignity and all else was gone there was love and that was all””””

      There is always love apart from all this things and struggle of life. Wow, thanks. The comment is quite inspiring to me.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Yes, I have found your blog very interesting. I’m looking forward to making time to read more of your blog posts. I appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness in your writing.

      Liked by 1 person

    3. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy you followed back..

      I guess you know how life feels now.
      What lessons have you learnt about life?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.
      Am happy you replied me.

      What are your own fair shares about life lessons.

      I really enjoyed such comment from you.
      Keep the vibes on Miss horptie

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Like

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy right now for such word as i quote””I Like it.””

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?

      Have you ever felt lessons about life and how it has treated you?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

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