I learned something new today. You see, in life, nobody is going to help you, nobody is going to help you do what you love the most and nobody is going to help your dream, your career but yourself.
Nobody is going to help your life. But someone will surely help you someday, not every day, not every time. Someone someday will realize that you deserve the best, you deserve to be loved, you deserve to be cared for, and you deserve to get what your heart has been longing for.
And all that depends on how you behave with people, the truth you say to them, how you relate with people, how you talk to people, and how you show honesty.
MY PERSONAL VIEW ON THE LESSONS I LEARNT ABOUT LIFE
1. BE HUMBLE, EVEN IF IT REQUIRES YOU FAKING IT.
You can fake humble but don’t show it. Don’t care about all that, just work hard, and stay humble.
2. STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF
when you start chasing dreams, a lot of people will change on you, they’ll turn on you, and you going to see their true colors. At last, all you can do is to focus on yourself.
3. ALWAYS MAKE PEACE AND SHOW LOVE
This is one of my slogan I believe covers all things. Peace and Love is what I leant since I have grown up enough to understand things. Make peace with everyone around you. Show love to those that have to be loved also. Lastly you will found out you just “PUT SMILES ON PEOPLE FACES”.
Here is a simple question for my fellow bloggers and viewers
what have you learnt from the lessons of life?
Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!
Written by:
Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka
Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor
University of Benin
www.facebook.com/patrickstories
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Those who thinks life is unfair to them. Just cheer up.
My lesson – you cannot please everyone, so make sure YOU are pleased with yourself.
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This is true. I agree. Living to express, not to impress 😊
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
Again you reply to someone comment also. I guess you happy about the post. I can see your smiling face now. Lol
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Peace and Love
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Lol! 😂
Have a good day you too ✨ ⛅😉
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Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
Thanks Miss honey8. You always with me and always showing your kind nature on my blog.
I appreciate it very much. I guess you are no 1 here…… 😂
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Peace and Love
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No 1 here! 😂😂 Lol.
You are welcomed friend! 😊😉🤗
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Hi honey thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear this quote touched you in some way😊
Many happy Sunday blessings to you !
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Peace and Love
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Totally agree when you understand you can’t please everybody and stop doing it then it is when you start living and happily.Then you get even wiser and not only you know you can’t please everybody but you also realize you don’t want to because you don’t give a s..i🤣that’s why I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals🤓
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Yes! We know who we are and that’s enough! 😄 We don’t need to prove anyone but just to be honest with ourselves.
Have a great coffee time friend! 😊☕
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Thank you……😊
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You welcome Mrs ortensia
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Peace and Love
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You too enjoy yourself. I appreciate you comment here also.
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Peace and Love
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Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
This reply is based on your personal views .
I also laugh and smile at your comment.
As I quote from your comment “””””Then you get even wiser and not only you know you can’t please everybody but you also realize you don’t want to because you don’t give a s..i🤣that’s why I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals🤓””””””””
Am just smiling now about it.. I guess am smiling based on”””I’m here reading and drinking coffe instead of tidying up for my mother and mother in law arrivals”””
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Peace and Love
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I wish you lots and lots of patience for when they come.
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😂😂😂thank you off to buy ears plugs now 😉at least they are not coming and the same time 😱
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Are you serious. Ear plugs. Wow. I really enjoyed your reply. At last they didn’t come.
Love to be your friend. Do you mind?
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Peace and Love
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How could I do?😉😊
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Lol.. It’s fun again you are online now.
I guess I like your kind here.
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Peace and Love
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Lol,thank you I’m rolling pizza dough 😋
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Are you on hangout. Or facebook or instagram. So we chat more over there
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I kind of like 🍕 some times
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Patience ….i agree with that.
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Peace and Love
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really love your comment. We can’t pleaseeveryone but we can please ourselves.
I love the comment.
Thanks Mr floating Gold
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Peace and Love
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Please with yourself is the greatest of the achievement 😎😍
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Yeah I still do that sometimes. Later I reason it sometimes it’s bad in the other way round. I guess balancing it is the proper way.
Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply and comment.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Thank you.i really enjoyed ur post😊
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Hi , thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear this quote touched you in some way😊 . Many blessings to you !
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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It’s true. Nobody can live your life for you and therefore nobody can be responsible for your success but you.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I so much love this comment you just said about the post.
I believe that also. Very true.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Pastor used to say that the only way to please everyone is please half when you show up and the other half will be pleased when you leave. 😅
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I have learned that I get what I earn,and seldom a dime more. I have learned that people are kind to me, most of the time, but sometimes I have to take my leave of a place, without fanfare, or even a goodbye. I have learned that being respected doesn’t mean being coddled. It’s all well and good.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i apprecaite very much.
From your comment I guess you learnt 3 things which are
1. I have learned that I get what I earn,and seldom a dime more.
2. I have learned that people are kind to me, most of the time, but sometimes I have to take my leave of a place, without fanfare, or even a goodbye.
3. I have learned that being respected doesn’t mean being coddled. It’s all well and good.
This 3 things are also applied to my life also. Especially the first one and the second one.
I enjoyed and loved your comment very much.
Thanks again for the comment Mrrighteousbruin9
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Peace and Love
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This is true. You were right before that i am gonna love this post. I seriously liked it very much.
I’ve learned self love. No matter whatever happens, one person is always there with us. We ourselves. I’ve learned that human mind is one of the greatest mysteries and our thoughts make our future. Our actions make our future. What we think.. we become 😊
Thanks for sharing this beautiful post. ✨✨
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
Am happy you find it interesting as I quote from your statement “”””””This is true. You were right before that i am gonna love this post. I seriously liked it very much.””””””””
Hmmmm, this lesson is very inspiring “”I’ve learned self love.”””””
That is cool of you “””I’ve learned self love.”””
Lastly, this is where I know you have slot to talk about life, as I viewed your comment “””””I’ve learned that human mind is one of the greatest mysteries and our thoughts make our future.”””””””
I love this one so much. I totally agree with it. It’s part of me also.
Thanks Thanks Thanks…
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Yes. Minds and thoughts are sometimes connected.
You welcomed !!! 🎉✨
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Thanks for replying back to me.
This is what i love most “””Minds and thoughts are sometimes connected.””””
For what you think, is what comes out of you.
Think positive live positive
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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I agree with you and my views are almost the same
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Those are some really good life lessons.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
What have you learnt from life recently?
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Great post Patrick😍
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Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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My pleasure to read it😊have a good Sunday
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You welcome Mrs ortensia
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Love
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Thanks…
What is your view about the life lesson?
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Peace and Love
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its definitely informative and eye catching from beginning to the end. I love it
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OK… Thanks again.
Hi, thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear this quote touched you in some way😊 I’ll swing by your blog. Many blessings to you !
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Thank you
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You asked about traffic. Can I get what you mean on that.
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Peace and Love
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followers
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My followers are just small 587. Am surprise bloggers are commenting on it so much.
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Peace and Love
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great…..i am still working on mine I have a little over 200
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That is cool… Add more friends and get more comments. OK
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Peace and Love
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yes
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OK… Keep it up… Life is not short ok..
Try and work more on followers.
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Peace and Love
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thank you
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You welcome. Just make it possible by entertainining them with nice and short write up.
I promise you will be happy by your response.
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Peace and Love
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do you have a lot of traffic
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Little why asking. You helping me with something
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Peace and Love
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I am just learning how to pull more traffic to mines….i was just asking. No reason
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I just do normal posting nothing else.
You surprise am having enough comment..
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Peace and Love
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oh okay
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Yes that is it. You free to observe it OK
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Peace and Love
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Reblogged this on Die Erste Eslarner Zeitung – Aus und über Eslarn, sowie die bayerisch-tschechische Region!.
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Thanks for the reblogginh don’t post.
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Peace and Love
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Thanks for your post and for all that you do with your blog. Also, thanks for following my UTLOT blog. You are very kind. https://utlot.wordpress.com/
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I have a simple question for you now.
What have you learnt from your everyday life?
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Thanks for your thoughts, and your question. The greatest lesson that I have learned from life is that “God is love.”
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Thanks for the reply
OK.. That is cool.
#Patrick
Peace and love
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Yes. Thank you. Please have a good day.
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You welcome sir
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Thank “you”
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My Lesson is:
Not everyone on earth deserves your time and attension. There are only few real people made perfectly for you,on whom you should spend your precious time. One key aspect of leading a happy life is realising who all to value in the journey and recognizing the role they play. Distinguishing between masks and faces is the most significant task, one should accomplish…
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I guess you touch me with your first comment as I quote from your comment”””Not everyone on earth deserves your time and attension.”””””
Secondly, not every one are alone to spend time with. So I believe in that statement also “””””There are only few real people made perfectly for you,on whom you should spend your precious time”””””
Thirdly, living a worthy life matters again, so I learnt this from you now “””””One key aspect of leading a happy life is realising who all to value in the journey and recognizing the role they play.”””””””
Finally, you made is clear that “””Distinguishing between masks and faces is the most significant task, one should accomplish…””””
I enjoyed this one because many people cover there face with mask, so we do not know who is who in life again.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Life shouldnt about any other person but you except for the fact that you want it that way😄
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Life is a personal thing. I agree to that.
What have you learnt from life lately?
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I have learnt to trust God more than i trust a person because he that knows the road leads the way😉and does it best
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Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
I understand what you saying. Those are your lessons about life.. Really cool.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Thanks😍
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You totally welcome.
Happy Valentine’s day
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Thanks happy val
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I have learnt to stay without people and progress on my own…I have also learnt that friendship is not permanent and one day you will realise you are all alone…..I love your blog… Interesting
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I totally agree with the comment as I write””” I have learnt to stay without people and progress on my own…I have also learnt that friendship is not permanent and one day you will realise you are all alone….”””
I so much agree on that. I stay without people and I also progress without them.
thanks velvet for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear you love this blog. Many blessings to you !
HAPPY VALENTINE
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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You are welcome Patrick
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OK… Hope you enjoying the valentine
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Not really..its such a disgusting day today… But thanks
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Really.. Since is disgusting. Try and read my post on Valentine’s and enjoy yourself.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Haha…I will do just that
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You welcome friend.
Love to be your friend. Are you on hangout whatsapp and facebook.
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Peace and Love
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Oh yeah…sure I am
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Can I have your whatsapp. I guess its easier that way
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I’m not active on whatsapp or fb so I guess you can add on IG @damsel_xo😊😊😊
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Really if you say so
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Yeahh
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Just check on it now.. I did follow you now.
Please accept
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Faking being humble🤔🤔. That must require a special sort of talent.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Yeah,that is true. Special talent. Now I know you read it to the end.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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I never comment unless I have read it till the end. 😊
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Hi soni
thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear that you read it to the end.😊 .
Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
Many blessings to you !
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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i loved your post so much 😀
I have learned to live no just exist and be happy with what i have., life is too short to stress myself about things,
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Hi fairouz thanks for stopping by and I’m so happy to hear this quote touched you in some way😊 . Many blessings to you !
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Well written!
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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This is beautiful and encouraging. I believe we must stay humble as well. I believe we must love fiercely even if it requires great effort. I nearly died from cancer with a prognosis of death, not expected to live past the first surgery. I was told if I did survive I would never speak or eat again. It was a terrifying prognosis but I chose to remain positive and believe for the best outcome. I am here and I do eat and speak with some obstacles. The one thing I learned in this life altering event is to Love deeply. The near death experience was humbling in itself. When I was stripped of everything else including all dignity and all else was gone there was love and that was all. I like your blog. Thank you.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Your introduction here on the comment box is quite inspiring as I state “””This is beautiful and encouraging. I believe we must stay humble as well. I believe we must love fiercely even if it requires great effort””””””
Secondly, am been touched by your illness which lead to a near death experience.
You strength to survive it was inspiring tonne as I type. I love that.
Lastly, you said it all in this last one “”When I was stripped of everything else including all dignity and all else was gone there was love and that was all””””
There is always love apart from all this things and struggle of life. Wow, thanks. The comment is quite inspiring to me.
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Yes, I have found your blog very interesting. I’m looking forward to making time to read more of your blog posts. I appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness in your writing.
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Thanks for replying back to me.
Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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Hmmmm, so so much that has only helped me get better and ALWAYS on my feet; which is good actually.
Thanks for following horptie.wordpress.com . I’m following back now
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Am happy you followed back..
I guess you know how life feels now.
What lessons have you learnt about life?
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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A lot; we all would always get our fair shares out of life’s lessons. Thanks for sharing your view.
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Thanks for replying back to me.
I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.
Am happy you replied me.
What are your own fair shares about life lessons.
I really enjoyed such comment from you.
Keep the vibes on Miss horptie
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Hmmmm, so so much that has only helped me get better and ALWAYS on my feet; which is good actually.
Thanks for following https://horptie.wordpress.com . I’m following back now
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Love this!!! I wrote a post somewhat similar today!http://personalgrowthsuccessblog.com/2018/03/19/26-things-ive-learned-so-far-in-my-26th-year-💖💛
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I will check on that.. It’s a pleasure you have a related topics on that.
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🤗🤗🤗
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Thanks. You smiling
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I like it.
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Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.
Am happy right now for such word as i quote””I Like it.””
I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
What is you contribution about this post?
Have you ever felt lessons about life and how it has treated you?
Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace and Love
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I nominated you for the 3 day quote challenge! Check it out and participate if you would like http://unbreakableyetfragile.com/?p=2308 💙
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Thanks friend
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Your Welcome Patrick!
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I love the positive vibes I get from your blog. 😃
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You welcome dear friend.
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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