SHATTERED FRIENDSHIP

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Everything seems to interact in order for them to live with satisfaction, and in this way we create unintentional relationships that may lead to intimate companionship.

Likewise, friendship would mean so special to both of you, may all of a sudden turn to nothing and back to strangers again.

It is really true that when friendships are shattered, it is hard to return it back to what it had been before. Things can be patched up but the friendship will never return the same.

Friendship is one of the main things that makes life worthwhile. When you have a friend to confide in, suffering seems more bearable and pleasures are more intense.

When a friendship is shattered , whether or not it is for the best, there is a degree of pain and mourning that an individual goes through in his mind. There were things that you may have done only with that person and you feel a void/empty in your life. Take some time to let yourself mourn before moving on.

Time doesn’t heal anything, for it only teaches us how to live with the pain.

There are things that you must keep in within your self and things that must be forgotten forever.

Somehow, time passes by, and we learn to move on”.

Moving on requires two powerful things:

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Keeping a friendship mean a lot…..my little  advice  is that always cherish your friendship and let it be the best.

I will like to ask a simple question  for my fellow readers and blogger. 

What was you own experience  of a shattered relationship or friendship?

 

Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!

 

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

www.facebook.com/patrickstories

 

 

 

 

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219 thoughts on “SHATTERED FRIENDSHIP

  1. mistimaan

    Nice post

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    2. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      What was you attitude when you had a shattered relationship?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  2. Noor_87Khan

    Relationship or friendship both hurt when they break..we can never unlove we just learn to leave with heartbreak

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I believe in you comment above “”relationship or friendship both hurt when they break”””

      From you comment,i can guess may be you had a shattered relationship or friendship before. Sorry am saying it you OK.

      Again, a simple question. What do do when such thing occur? Do you move on or just sit and think about it?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Noor_87Khan

        I move on..i can’t offord to sit back and think…but I when I write I do remember.

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          Wow. Am OK with that. Moving on is very necessary in case of a shattered relationship or friendship.

          Was it easy for you to move?
          How did you surpass the pain of untrustworthy from her?

          I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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          1. Noor_87Khan

            Moving on is never easy..but we need to move on anyways. For oueselves because loving oneself is important thing like you said in your post ‘the concept of spending time alone’. You can not hurt thinking about things you do not have

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            1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

              Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

              Wow am amazing by you reply here.
              You just did a connect with it””spending time alone”””

              Shows you read my post very well.
              Am happy I made you happy also.

              Lastly, moving on is never easy, but the pain is still there. But still you have to move on.
              I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace and Love

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              1. Noor_87Khan

                I am glad😊

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  3. True! This is exactly what I felt when a friend broke my trust. What’s worst was she doesn’t even acknowledged her mistakes.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Wow, am really sorry for that Mrs Winnie, I know you feeling now.

      Trust and honesty is a key tool to friendship with that no friendship is standard.

      What was your behaviour toward her when you find out about it?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. It’s my pleasure! Your post resonated with me. Although I was seething inside, I talked to her calmly. I talked about dealing with anger in one of my post. Here it is: https://dailygrindofastayathomemom.wordpress.com/2018/01/31/dealing-with-anger/

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        1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

          Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          Thanks for that word “resonated” I really like it.

          Make me feel better and moved also

          Lastly i will check out the link.ok
          Mrs Winnie

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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          1. It’s my pleasure! You can call me Winnie 🙂

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            1. You always welcome.

              So are you on any hangout facebook and whatsapp. So we extend and know each other

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              1. What’s your email address? I’ll send it to you

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  4. I am happy to say that till date I have experience of broken friendships. I have made all good friends in my 28 years of life journey. Yes there are some who communicate less because of the fast pace of their lives. But those are only matters of time. There are no broken pieces anywhere. 😊

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      From you comment above I can see you have experience of broken relationships.

      How were you able to cope during the time of occurrence?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  5. Correction: I have no experience of broken friendships

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      You been furious and taking it personal. Just your nice comment I needed.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  6. True, friendships do make life worthwhile. You can check one of my posts on friends and friendships, too.

    https://happymesshappiness.wordpress.com/2017/11/07/on-friends-friendships

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      You welcome also I will check on that very soon.

      I have a simple question for you.

      Have you had a shattered friendship or relationship?
      What did you do to move on?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Your question is pretty much answered when you read the link I gave you. 🙂

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        1. OK.. I will. Thanks for sharing it.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and love

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  7. Sometimes learning to deal with the pain is the only thing one can do. When my children died, time taught me how to live without them, but it took a lot of time. But you’re right in that peace and love can put the joy back into our lives. Good post!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I just enjoyed this comment now “””Sometimes learning to deal with the pain is the only thing one can do.”””

      Lastly i still enjoy this last statement “”But you’re right in that peace and love can put the joy back into our lives”””

      I guess you angry totally about the “”peace and love”””concepet.

      Am really sorry about your lost Mrs betty

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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            1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

              Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

              I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

              That is what I preach and practise each day.

              What about you?
              What type of virtue do you practise?

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace and Love

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              1. I try to practice honesty

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                1. That will be very good of you. Honesty is what we need in our daily life.

                  I would love to be your friend.

                  Are you in any hangout whatsapp or facebook. So we extend our chat there.

                  Love to know more and chat more.

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                  1. No, I don’t usually hang out on social media. I just have my blog, and sometimes retweet things on Twitter. That’s it. I do have a Facebook page, but it’s only about my books I’m trying to write.

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                    1. Really… But you can send message through gmail. We can chat over there.

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                    2. I don’t know how. I’m not very technology savvy.

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                    3. Do you have a facebook messenger on your phone

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                    4. Let chat there…. Let me have your name so I send friend request to you.

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                    5. I think it’s maddmombetty, but it might just be betty horn.

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                    6. Lol… You name on facebook. That is what am asking. You

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                    7. My name on Facebook, I think, is Betty Horn, or my Facebook page (author) is Betty Chatham Horn. I think…

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                    8. Am seeing many Betty horn. What are you wearing or doing so I can know it’s you

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Yeah true miss honey

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  8. Un proverbe Nord Africain dit que celui qui a beaucoup d’amis reste sans ami.

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  9. I’m going to have to check. I forgot! But I know I have information about going to Utah State University on my page.

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    1. I have seen it. I just sent you a message now

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      1. Ok. I have not received it yet, but will respond when I do!

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        1. OK. That is good. I love that very much

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  10. velvetscreams

    Friendship is something that can be shattered in a second due to one thing or the other and therefore we shouldn’t put all our heart into it…it will only hurt…to me…its trash!😂😂

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      Wow. Really.. You said trash.
      Like you do not have friends at all.

      May be you had a broken friendship which didn’t go well for you.

      Lastly i believe that statement that”””friendship is something that can be shattered in a second “””””

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  11. I lost my friend resently I can’t believe I got it so wrong about her, showed nothing but love and respect, that life I suppose Hope you had a lovely weekend x

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Ohhh really. Sorry for the loss. RIP to her from. You got her wrong all this why. What really happened?

      #patrick

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. your very welcome I love your site x

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        1. Thanks for replying back to me.

          I guess you find my site interesting.

          thanks for loving my site.

          I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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  12. I introduced a college friend to a childhood friend once. They had a falling out and I was forced to choose sides. I chose to stick with the older friend since the college friend created the falling out in the first place. I don’t really miss him. There was other issues that proved that to be wise choice.
    Sometimes, you want everyone to get along and other times God removes them for a reason.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I guess you cherish the older one to the college. I found it interesting about your decisions.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. It wasn’t a matter of loving one more than the other. It was a toxic personality that would have lead me to ruin.

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

          Like

  13. I love the post.I think that some time relationships just like friendship simply fade away and then end.there is not a specific reason but many starting with the fact that we change and that’s ok in a way you have to accept it.some other times instead

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Thanks for loving the post. Change is constant.so I agree with that wonderful comment given by Miss ortensia

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  14. I love the post.I think that some time relationships just like friendship simply fade away and then end.there is not a specific reason but many starting with the fact that we change and that’s ok in a way you have to accept it.some other times instead they end because they are broken from the other side and so are.that it hurts but it passes just not always without leaving deep scars

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  15. It is too soon to say, but a very close friend has pulled back, significantly, owing to a difference in spiritual beliefs. I am giving this person space and am keeping the door ajar. We will see how it all pans out.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I totally understand how you feel about it, from you comment above. “””but a very close friend has pulled back, significantly, owing to a difference in spiritual beliefs.””””

      From my own personal view Religious belief should not be a total reason for someone to stop a close friendship.
      Hope you understand me and please do not get me wrong OK.
      What am asking now is that are you OK “”” giving this person space”””
      I need you reply on that.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. I am doing well, Patrick, and thank you!

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.
          I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now. Since you are doing well. That is good to know.

          What about your friend how is he doing since you left each other?
          Again was he comfortable with such decision?
          Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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          1. My friend is a woman, and it has been largely her decision to stay sequestered.

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            1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

              I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

              Wow. Mehnnn.. I know it was not easy for her to move on and you during the initial stage of the separation.

              Do you guys call or text each other Or does she invite you for celebration or anything else.

              Sorry am asking I know is just a personal thing.

              Thanks again for reading this my comment to the end.

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace and Love

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  16. This hits close to home. I for the first time developed a friendship before a relationship. However, when our relationship ended also did our friendship. It’s a whole new kind of hurt, but yes mourning is necessary. Thank you for writing this! It shows me I am not the only one going through what we call life.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Wow. I guess you mourned during the initial stage.
      You welcome for saying how the post “”” hit close to home”””

      Can I ask a simple question how did you move on?
      What did you decide during your process of moving on?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. I haven’t yet. Past ways aren’t what I would consider healthy. So, at the moment I am staying afloat trying to convince myself that this is the right decision even though it feels so wrong physically.

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          Thanks again for reading this my replied comment to the end.

          I agree going back to it is totally unhealthy for you.
          Please ,forgive me for asking you. OK

          I really like such reply as I type to you now.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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  17. Patrick – I have found that friendships and relationships of all kinds ebb and flow like the ocean. Sometimes a person is in your life for a moment, sometimes a season, and sometimes a lifetime. I think it is important to recognize what type of friendship/relationship it is and learn and grow from it. This was a good post. Thought provoking. -Jill

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I kind of like you introduction here, very inspiring as I quote “”Patrick – I have found that friendships and relationships of all kinds ebb and flow like the ocean.””””

      I totally agree to this statement base on my little knowledge about life now “””Sometimes a person is in your life for a moment, sometimes a season, and sometimes a lifetime.””””

      Every friendship has a time,moment and season depending on both party.

      Now I know you reading my mind right now when you said this “””” I think it is important to recognize what type of friendship/relationship it is and learn and grow from it.””””

      Recognizing a relationship/friendship matters in life,may lead you to good things or bad things of life.

      Thank you for saying this to me”””This was a good post.””””

      Really “””Thought provoking”””
      Sound funny lol………

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  18. Thank you for following. Peace.

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    1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      I guess i find your post interesting and educative.

      I really enjoyed such post as I type to you now.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    1. Is like French.i don’t understand it

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  19. Nothing hurts more than a broken friendship. Then again, real friendships never break.

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    1. Thanks for the comment. I appreciate that very much.
      I agree to that statement in your comment”Nothing hurts more than a broken friendship. Then again, real friendships never break.”
      Checking it the other way round, real friendship can also be shattered.
      Iguess what they need is peace amd love.

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      1. I feel like when your final day comes, and you look back on your life, that’s when you realize who your friends really were!

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        1. Yeah.. I totally agree. For me when I check my childhood I remember most of my close friends.
          My new friends now are just like patch up for now.
          My primary and secondary school friends are still the great.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and love

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          1. I totally agree! We find our true friends in the early stages of life! Once we get older, the people we add are more acquaintances than friends

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            1. thanks for replying back to me.
              i guess you find something meaning in my reply to you.
              “more acquaintances than friends” are what we get later in life.

              #patrickstories
              peace and love

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  20. Nice post!
    “When you have a friend to confide in, suffering seems more bearable and pleasures are more intense.” – this line❤

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      It shows how you read this post to the end. For you to pick out sure phrase””“When you have a friend to confide in, suffering seems more bearable and pleasures are more intense.” – this line❤””””, i really love that very much.

      I totally agree with it, less suffering and more pleasure when you have a friend to confide in.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      BLESSINGS BLESSINGS BLESSINGS

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          Am finding your reply OK…. Smile ☺ ☺

          Blessing! Blessing!!!

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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  21. Hi! I nominated you for the Liebster award:
    https://happymesshappiness.wordpress.com/2018/03/01/liebster-award-6
    Have a great day! 🙂

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and nominating me for this beautiful award for my blog. i appreciate that very much.

      I guess you find my blog interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. The pleasure is mine. 🙂

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        1. You are welcome.
          Thanks for replying  back to me.

          I guess you find my comment interesting.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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  22. So true, I had this recently with someone, so is quite a relatable post. Thank you 😛

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy you read it to the end.

      What is your own virtueous life you would like to tell me?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Loveb

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      1. My virtuous life? I don’t really have one! I try to live my best for the Lord God each day!! What about you, Patrick? 😀

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        1. Thanks for replying back to me. I have two most important virtue I practise – love and peace

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  23. Vallen W.

    One of the many painful experiences in the human life. I recently had an experience like this where I have needed to let go of a friendship because I became a last resort/last option in my friends life. I was no longer her choice to go do things with because she replaced me with someone else. The hard part is that we are still “friends”, she doesn’t see absolutely anything wrong, nor does she seem to notice the long periods of time that we don’t talk anymore. And when she (rarely) asks me to come along with her it’s only to tag along with her and “the friend”. We still see each other because our daughters are friends but it isn’t as it was. And it will never be that way again. This is a very relevant and relate-able post, thanks for sharing!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Wow. What a long comment on this post.
      I find your comment very interesting.

      I really enjoyed such comment from the beginning as you stated””” I recently had an experience like this where I have needed to let go of a friendship because I became a last resort/last option in my friends life.”””

      “Last option” -She just let you be. I guess you were like a bundle to her.

      When we were young we like doing child play and stuff together. School and new friend changed most of our attitudes.

      Checking it very well, as you advance in age, you frienship grown thinner depending on some factors like marriage, distance and work/career.

      Am happy for this statement you just said now “”We still see each other because our daughters are friends but it isn’t as it was.”””

      I just thought and I am in total agreement with this one “”And it will never be that way again.”””

      I have such an experience also.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      My last question is :what was your reaction when you notice you guys where gonna end up in such ways?

      Are you happy with it -yes or no

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Vallen W.

        I was heartbroken. It was a relationship that I worked really hard to keep. No I’m not happy how everything worked out. we were best friends and we did everything together and knowing I wasn’t as important hurts. I was so happy she met another friend, but I didn’t realize I’d be slowly but surely pushed out.

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        1. Wow. Am so sorry for that. Mrs vallen.
          I know how you feel about it. But you still have to move on

          When it happened how did you cope?

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and love

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  24. Mine happened when I realized the trust was betrayed. I would never lose my respect for the person but I realized I could never be the same. Sad to say it, but I cut them out of my life.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Cutting them off was like your last option.
      From the comment above.

      Were you able to move on that period?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Yes. I did move on. Life is too precious to remain stuck on these isn’t it! 🙂

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          I guess you find my comment interesting.

          Wow.. This what i enjoyed most “”Life is too precious to remain stuck on these isn’t it! 🙂”””

          That was a good decision taken by you.
          Love that.

          I really enjoyed such reply as I type to you now.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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  25. I’m struggling to get over a romantic relationship I ended and wondering if I should suggest that we try again (if he’s still interested), or just let it go, or be friends. It’s been 6 months and I’m still grieving the intimacy we shared and wondering if I was too picky. I’m going to try and just let it be without “pushing the river” and see what happens. Very hard. I want to cling.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I love this first part of the comment as I state””” I’m struggling to get over a romantic relationship I ended and wondering if I should suggest that we try again (if he’s still interested), or just let it go, or be friends.””””

      From your introduction, I feel for you very well and I think you have a strong feelings for him again.

      Here is a little tip of advice-You can still make it work out if you still have that feelings for him again. OK.

      This second statement shows both of you have alot in sharing. Wow. Simple again, just amend things. It will be better since you have a strong feelings toward him.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  26. Friendships I hold close to my heart. Your post made me both happy and sad. Happy because I have a small hand full of very close friends for many years. Sad from losing two of my closest friends. One has passed away and the other I do not know where he is. I’ve searched to no avail. I should be happy for the time spent together. All of grammar school and all of high school.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      You comment are quite inspiring. I love that happy and sad story you just said here. I love them very much.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  27. Oh shoot I came be to thank you for the follow on my blog and started reading Patrick Stories and almost forgot

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    1. Thanks for the compliment.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  28. I shattered a friendship, we didn’t talk for about 3 years! Then luckily we reconciled & now appreciate each other much more… A lovely post, thank you. X

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    1. Thanks for commenting and reading the post to the end.

      During the period of 3 years: What were you doing about the shattered friendship you doing? Did you bear it?

      Love your short comment very inspiring.

      PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and love

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      1. It was difficult, I think we were both waiting for the other to take the first step back towards each other, but it’s made us stronger… x

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        1. Thanks for replying back and answering my question. I Patrick appreciate very much.

          I just have to say wow wow wow …. From your reply I can see you are truly saying what happened.

          Am just getting to imagine how it will be after 3 years of shattered friendship.

          After the 3 years, Who approach each other. You or her?

          Was it fun when you first reconcile?

          I really love to see you reply on this. OK Mrs baffle.

          Happy Weekend

          PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and love

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          1. It was tough. A loss brought us back together… The bond had been broken, it took time and respect to build it back… I’m glad we did. X

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            1. OK…. I knew it will be tough on both of you.

              A loss..make me understand Mrs baffle.

              Who apologize first..you or her?
              Am happy for you also.

              PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace and love

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  29. I wanted you to just keep going, the words so True!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      “”The word are true”” I love that statement very much.
      Have you been in such situations about shattered friendship?
      Love to see you reply on that.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Oh yes I have, even up until recently! But I would always cherish my friendships; so very much – friends have been good to me, even though I’ve had almost extremely bad ones. Friendship isn’t one thing I could ever trade.

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.

          I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

          Am totally happy you replied back to me

          By this statement what “””I’ve had almost extremely bad ones.””

          Hmmmm, so you have some element of shattered friendship sometime again.

          Where you able to cope?

          I really enjoyed such post from you. Keep the vibes on Mrs horptie

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  30. Yes I did. Read up posts from my blog https://horptie.wordpress.com. thank you.

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    1. You totally welcome miss horptie

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Love to ask you one simple question.

      What is your idea about shattered friendship?

      Have you heard any shattered friendship

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Yes, had those experience. I don’t mind giving second chances, sometimes third or fourth. But the degree of why the friendship becomes shattered will come in, if it’s too much then it might not be the same again. Also, sometimes the length of our friendship is also taken into consideration, if we’ve been together for the longest time, and been though hell and heaven, I might consider some compromises. And it depends, to the person, situation and whatnot.

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        1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

          Am so sorry you had such experience as I quote from you “””
          Yes, had those experience. I don’t mind giving second chances, sometimes third or fourth.”””

          For sure if the friendship was shattered base on trust and honesty, I guess you right with that comment “””But the degree of why the friendship becomes shattered will come in, if it’s too much then it might not be the same again.””””

          Most shattered friendship we see today beome worst because of trust and money.

          This is where I love in this comment, long friendship/relationship is also considered after checking it,you just have to accept it back.
          You comment here is inspiring to me as I speak to you base on your comment as I quote””””Also, sometimes the length of our friendship is also taken into consideration, if we’ve been together for the longest time, and been though hell and heaven, I might consider some compromises.””””

          After everything,it goes to individual difference , so I totally agree with this “””And it depends, to the person, situation and whatnot.”””””

          Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace and Love

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          1. I do, and thanks for stopping in my blog. Always interested in interrelating with other bloggers. 🙂

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            1. Am happy am here with you…

              Can we interact in facebook hangout instagram and whatsapp

              Like

              1. I’m sorry Patrick, I try and not mix my wp to my private life. Hope you can understand. Thanks. 🙂

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                1. No problem.. So we can interact here. Am OK with that

                  Like

  31. Yes, beautifully written Congratulations 🕊

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    1. You welcome dear dazzled
      Thanks for the comment.

      Like to ask you a simple question.

      Have you had any shattered friendship or relationship?
      What was your way of handling it.

      PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and love

      Like

      1. My motto has always been ” wait there I will be back” 😂 Don’t look back you’re not going that way! Just live in the critical inch of oxygen right now😊

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  32. “Time doesn’t heal anything, for it only teaches us how to live with the pain.” True words. I have had friendships go sour before but the worst one was when a friend betrayed our friendship and trust about 3 years ago. It is despicable when you are over 40 and your friend behaves with the emotional maturity of a 14 year old girl

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      The quotation you gave make me feel well also. “”Time doesn’t heal anything, for it only teaches us how to live with the pain.”””

      For me also, I have been betrayed by friends also,i agree with such quotation.
      I starting to imagine the feeling you will get when your friend betrayed you.

      What was your reaction that moment?
      Where you able to cope with it?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

  33. Thanks so much for reading my post and for the like.

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    1. I appreciate that very much. Thanks again

      Like

  34. Just saw the follow A big thanks to ya!

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    1. You welcome dear.
      Thanks for that.
      What is your idea about a shattered frienship/relationship?

      Have you had any before?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  35. I actually wrote on this theme: https://ruchirasrambling.wordpress.com/2018/01/29/a-letter-to-my-lost-loves/
    I believe every relationship has its time, and when its over, we move on with lessons learned.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      From you comment you said “”I believe every relationship has its time, and when its over, we move on with lessons learned.””

      For me when I had mine. Took me months to mourn over it. Was Painful.

      What are the lesson you can learn in a shattered friendship/relationship?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

  36. Read my story https://charusneha.wordpress.com/2018/03/26/40/ .. Dreaming of getting your valuable feedback!

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    1. I will do that also. OK.

      Have you heard any shattered relationship once?

      Where you able to cope that period.?

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      1. Thankyou for replying. No I have never experienced broken relationship. I feel with love of family and friends one can cope that period and emerge out of it.

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        1. Yeah.. Thanks for you idea. I appreciate that very much.
          I will check in your blog now. I hope you have interesting stuff I can view.

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

          Like

            1. That is very big heart you gave to me.

              Like

    2. Am still surprised over this comment…
      Dreaming of getting your valuable feedback

      You made my day. Am smiling now. ☺

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy right now for such word as i quote””This is so profound and so relevant! Love it.”””

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like losing yourself?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      1. Hey i already replied you on Never Lose Yourself .

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        1. Sorry, it was a mistake. Hope not offended at all. Have you had any shattered friendship with some one?

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          1. Don’t be …. Its okay

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            1. Thanks for that.

              You welcome dear friend.

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace ✌and Love ❤

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            2. You welcome dear friend.

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace ✌and Love ❤

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          2. Shattered friendship 😅😅 many 🙈

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            1. Give me some. How were you able to cope?

              You welcome dear friend.

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace ✌and Love ❤

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              1. Sorryyy but i dont wanna recall anything in my head

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                1. I understand what you saying. I guess was hurtful.

                  Thanks for the congratulations.
                  I appreciate that very much. I hope you you get such followers in your blog.
                  Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my such post

                  #PATRICKSTORIES
                  Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                  1. Yeah my pleasure and your posts are awesome 🙂🙂 and they way you communicate with bloggers is great

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                    1. Wow……am feeling shy right now….hmmmmmm lol😊😊

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    2. What is your idea about having a good friend?

                      What are your choices of friend to avoid such shattered frienship?

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    3. To understand and never compare 🤣 mine life with theirs …. i had a frnd she always use to compare everything about me and herslf … and she wants everything i had …. she was a jealous copy cat 🤣🤣 i dnt want sch kind of people …. and ukw she was so negative about herself …. although she has everything she want still she was unsatisfied with that 😅.

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                    4. Thanks for answering my question. I appreciate that very much.
                      Wow.. That is so weird of her. Did you tell her what she did was bad. To do a copycat of her in all things.

                      I had such people. Some people were trying to be like mine. But i was different from them. My character and how i do my things where quite different. At last they have to stop copying me.

                      You welcome dear friend for giving me such an inspiring reply

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    5. Hahaha i told her but she never understand, then once i lose my pateince 🙈🙈 i burst everything out 🙈🙈🙈 after that we never talk 🤣

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                    6. Hahahahahahah……. So you stopped talking…hahahahahah….but who stopped talking to each other. You or her.

                      Love when you approach her and told her about it. I guess she was angry about it. May be people like you more than her or she was forcing her own likers from people around…

                      Lol….hahahahahha. you kind of fun to be.

                      Just want to know. So i will know my next point on that.

                      Thanks Mr/Mrs   for accepting and following my blog.

                      I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.

                      You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
                      your blog.

                      I still remain  the simple blogger…..

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    7. She stopped talking to me and i wont even tried calling her 🤣

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                    8. Oooooohhhhhhhhh. She stopped not you. I guess she was jealous then. So she stopped.

                      You did the right thing for that frienship. Could have cause her a big problem. Trying to be like you.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    9. 🤣🤣 let it be …. 👻👻

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                    10. Lol i am sharing 🤣🤣 this with the one i dont even know … but its fun 🤣🤣🤣 and u have to read my post its my order … okay 🤣🤣 mind it 🙈🙈🙈
                      #kidding #dontmind 🤣🤣

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                    11. You are free to know me….Am patrick by name

                      We can talk and gist on any social medium like facebook hangout instagram

                      My hangout is patrickreallstories@gmail.com

                      Add me on instagram
                      Patrick_patrickstories

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                    12. Sure 😊😊 Patrick 🤗🤗 nice to meet you i am mahee 😁😁

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                    13. That is a good name mahee…….hahaha

                      Which country. Can i ask…..mine is nigeria

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                    14. Wow..i have a lot in my followers. Most are indians.

                      Again….what up with that name reveuse…..please whats the meaning.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    15. Reveuse is a french word means dreamer

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                    16. How did you come up with that. Using it as your site name. What made you choose it.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    17. Hahahaha 🙈🙈🙈 u ask so many questions 🙈🙈 i was searching for a perfect name to define me … and i found reveuse … the dreamer ….and i love learning french 🙈🙈

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                    18. Hhahahahaha…am a blogger i ask alot. What are friends for. Why are you a blogger when you can’t ask a question. I ask question even to the point of making you angry….

                      Just kidding. But i do ask…hahahahahah.

                      Just dreamer. Very cool you choose it as a name of your blog.

                      Are you on hangout so we channel our friendship over there.

                      Mine is patrickreallstories@gmail.com

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    19. Hangout 😅 never used hangout 🙈

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                    20. What about facebook or instagram.

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                    21. I am antisocial kindof …. i dont get time to use any social sites …. for writting blog i use to manage my time with work and home…

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                    22. So how do i get to chat with you. Since you are antisocial. I love chating up my friends here on WP.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    23. Just like we are doing now … in comments 😁 👻 or u can mail me on reveuse014@gmail.com

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                    24. What kind of phone do you use?

                      Check well there is hangout in it. Just download on playstore.

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                    25. Okay i will search it on app store 🙂 later …. now i got to go 😊😊 just reached home from work and i have work … see ya soon 😁😁

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                    26. I will text you on email. I guess we should chat through that. I guess you are comfortable with that.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    27. Again you free to share. Live is all about sharing every moment you have both bad and good. Life is fun when you share.

                      That is why i share and spread Peace ✌and Love ❤

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    28. Yeah 🤣🤣 i never use to share anything with anyone but i did with you 🤣🤣 it feels great recalling that weirdo frnd of mine hahahaa thanks buddyyyy 😊😊 and keep reading my blog 🤣🤣 speaking to you feels like speaking to a good frnd 🙂 thanks

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                    29. Am totally in love to your reply. As far we talking about friendship. So am happy. I have been in that type of relationship before.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    30. Why that face. You making me feel like i said am odd thing to you.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    31. No u said nothing odd … i am just sending you emotions as funn dont mind 😁😁 ….

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                    32. I made alot of friends any place where i go. Am just a good friend maker. Even on this WP.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    33. Yeah i got you 😊 and i read your post on church that was great … you notice minor details and thats awesome 😁

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                    34. Really….so you are a christian. That is cool.
                      Most indian friend i have are hindius.

                      I enjoy them also. I learn from them also.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    35. No i am not christian … i am hindu bramhin 😃😃

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                    36. Ohhhhhhhh.. So tell me more about it. Love to know about it.
                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    37. Hahaha hindu bramhins are the sacred pure vegetarian saints 😃😃 kindof
                      I am not saint but people of my religion usually are 😁😅

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                    38. So saints…are you a vegetarian… Wow. Am happy i have you here. Was it like to be a vegetarian.

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    39. And i had many weird and mean friends …. i always try to maintain my relationship with everyone and tolerate their shitty behaviour for long time … but as you knw everyone has their limit. I never gave up on anyone easily but if i do then i dont even give a shit 🤣 .

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                    40. Dnt give a shit. Sound like shit to me now. Lol…hahahahahahhaha…..

                      Am a big fan of such reply and This is what i like in this reply””And i had many weird and mean friends …. i always try to maintain my relationship with everyone and tolerate their shitty behaviour for long time”””

                      #PATRICKSTORIES
                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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                    41. Just like all both weird mean good bad.

                      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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        1. Thanks for replying  back to me.
          I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.Am totally happy for your reply to. I really enjoyed such smile reply

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

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            1. Thanks for the congratulations.
              I appreciate that very much. I hope you you get such followers in your blog.
              Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my such post

              #PATRICKSTORIES
              Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  37. Friendship last for ever

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    1. Not all last. That was why we have shattered friendship

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      1. ha everyone has these shattered dreams

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  38. I’ve experienced a lot of shattered friendship, but yeah, we just have to move on while hoping to find the right person to be with our side forever. Someone we can consider our best friend. Great post! ❤️

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  39. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

    I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.

    Have you heard any shattered relationship?

    Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

    #PATRICKSTORIES
    Peace and Love

    Liked by 1 person

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