Everything seems to interact in order for them to live with satisfaction, and in this way we create unintentional relationships that may lead to intimate companionship.
Likewise, friendship would mean so special to both of you, may all of a sudden turn to nothing and back to strangers again.
It is really true that when friendships are shattered, it is hard to return it back to what it had been before. Things can be patched up but the friendship will never return the same.
Friendship is one of the main things that makes life worthwhile. When you have a friend to confide in, suffering seems more bearable and pleasures are more intense.
When a friendship is shattered , whether or not it is for the best, there is a degree of pain and mourning that an individual goes through in his mind. There were things that you may have done only with that person and you feel a void/empty in your life. Take some time to let yourself mourn before moving on.
Time doesn’t heal anything, for it only teaches us how to live with the pain.
There are things that you must keep in within your self and things that must be forgotten forever.
Somehow, time passes by, and we learn to move on”.
Moving on requires two powerful things:
Keeping a friendship mean a lot…..my little advice is that always cherish your friendship and let it be the best.
I will like to ask a simple question for my fellow readers and blogger.
What was you own experience of a shattered relationship or friendship?
Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!
Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka
University of Benin