MY MEMORIES OF LOVE

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Have you loved someone even after they became just a memory?

Have you ever held on to a memory for too long wishing and hoping?

Have you ever found someone you wanted to share your soul with?

Tell me, have you ever felt your heart break into a million tiny pieces? That deep ache that just wouldn’t go away.

Just the other night, I was reading an article about love and it brought back memories.

Like how you always make pranks on me.

Like how you always tease me about my rough hair.

Like how you slowly introduce me into the soft blues we played together like Enya music’s. What I hated most was blues.

You change my music idea from hip-hop/rap to classical and soft tune music

 Ever since I’ve been a soft blue lover.

You taught me to love whether in good or bad condition.
And that’s why I choose to believe that everything happens for a reason and people come into our life sometimes just for some purpose which is

 

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There’s a lesson in everything. It may not be so obvious to you right now, but one day you’ll look back and realize.

Love doesn’t always go the way we plan sometimes and that’s just the way it is.

 

Let go, make new memories.

Now let me ask you fellow bloggers one simple question:

“WHAT ARE YOUR LOVE MEMORIES YOU HAD ABOUT SOMEONE?”

Please let me know all your reactions and insights in the comments below!

 

 

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

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175 comments

    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      This is where I love in your comment, “”i do have memories to linger upon but I don’t because i know it will hurt.”” I guess I comply with that statement.
      Some times those sweet memories occupy our mind and make happy each time we reflect. Some one like me who is an introvert I do reflect on those things.

      What are the sweet once you have?
      Just list a little here.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      • That’s actually the reality Patrick.
        We need to move on.
        I have memories of some friends who met me on the way and lest too early but I guess this was my fate. So it would be good if I move on rather than sticking to there thoughts.

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        • Thanks for replying  back to me.

          I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

          Yeah, it’s good to move on. That was life was design.
          What I was saying is that if you had such memories back then?

          Am totally happy you replied back to me.
          Keep the vibes on

          I really enjoyed such comment that is while

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  1. Aish, that’s very pretty! And talking about love memories, I had a special someone a long time ago. Sadly, I later found out that they were dating me for petty instead of love, and decided to shut down any contact with them. Now I apologised for being stupid towards them, and we are on good terms tho!

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      This is where I love in your comment, love supersedes all things like pretty, beautiful and ugly. I guess I comply with that statement “””I later found out that they were dating me for petty instead of love, and decided to shut down any contact with them.”””

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  2. The answer is yes.A big yes Its because I am not programmed. I am not a MP3 player or anything. I will always have those memories and love even after the person is gone. That dosent necessarily means its a good thing. Sometimes I think its a weakness. But I am that. I always fall for those ‘little things’ that I used to have with that certain person 🙂

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Wow, that was bad and sad “”distance is what tore us apart.””
      How do you see her/him again?
      What was you emotion that that period?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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      • Well I highly doubt we would meet anytime soon in the near future but it’d be nice to catch up and see how much we’ve both changed.

        At that period in time I was pretty sad. As a kid I didn’t like it at all but eventually as I got older I came to terms with reality.

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        • Thanks for replying  back to me.
          I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

          Yeah, reality just showed you that life is varied always,that we don’t expect things to be always the way we want it. So I Patrick comply with you statement “””as I got older I came to terms with reality.””””

          Am totally happy you replied back to me.
          Keep the vibes on. I really enjoyed such comment that is while

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  3. I don’t really have love memory stories to share except as if stacked on a shelf like a library because I’m in a present love. I guess how we relate to past, present and future all depends on what our love status currently is. I cherish all my past lovers and will never stop loving them. But my present love is everything so the exes are no more now than a CD collection or a library stack of books no longer read. I came on here to thank you for liking my post Love’s Communion.

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I found this statement funny “””But my present love is everything so the exes are no more now than a CD collection or a library stack of books no longer read. “”””

      Despite the funny statement, It reads meanings also , you just have to move on. What am after is that,telling me the love memories you shared back then?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  4. Everytime I see your post PATRICK I so really connect myself with you as having some similar thoughts i guess…I do have memories of friendship of my school friend she was a kind of girl i love to go around however after 10 she went to a different city and we lost all contacts..still MISS U TANYA…but yes the memories are still as refreshed as it happened yesterday only…

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Again I appreciate that words you use on me now on your first sentence “”Everytime I see your post PATRICK I so really connect myself with you as having some similar thoughts i guess””
      Am so happy for commenting on my works and for connecting to my post. I guess I inspired you a little through my works, ideas and posts.

      Am happy you answers my question very well-“”” but yes the memories are still as refreshed as it happened yesterday only”””

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  5. My memories are of an effervescent woman-child, 26 when we met, who had me going out the gate and whose side I never left- all those years of struggle, impulsivity on both our parts, intense travel and raising a spirited child together. She wanted at least one more, but it would have killed her, earlier than the disease did. I have no regrets. I stayed at her side, until she left.

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    • Thanks for replying  back to me.I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

      You descriptions of your love memories was a touching story and your beginning was well describe about her as I quote “”My memories are of an effervescent woman-child”””
      I know those memories keep coming to you but you have to hold on to it that life is full of ups and downs. As I read more I found out she left this world despite the struggles as quote “”I stayed at her side, until she left”””

      You are such a great hubby for such patience toward her and you time toward her till she left. You effort was not a waste it just a memories of what you did that matters.
      Am fully touched by this reply you gave to me about her and also the love memories of her. Am totally happy you replied back to me.
      Keep the vibes on.

      Remember is about showing LOVE and making PEACE. I really enjoyed such comment and reply you gave.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Have you heard any memories of love of a loved one?
      What was it like?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.
      Again, I will love your own contribution here on the this very post.
      Any contributions we be welcome here.

      What are your opinion about losing oneself?
      What your contribution and idealogy on this post?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    • Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.

      What are the expectations of your kind of love?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  6. Good article – memories of love tend to lose some of the negatives of a situation or a person and become rose tinted. They also benefit from the wisdom of an older you, more understanding, more experienced, more self aware. I write a lot about love and loss and it’s all a journey – some things in the rear view mirror look better than they were at the time.

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    • I just skimmed through your comment now 🙂 And I must say, you do write in a way that gives people a chance to think. Please keep the words coming, Lancelot 🙂 Look forward to seeing more of your comment.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    • Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.That really means a lot to me. After reading your comment I am really feeling blessed.

      Have you ever had such memories?
      Just tell me.

      Thank you so much for reading my post and for your nice words.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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      • I have a feeling I’ll have these memories in the imminent future,it’s given me a premonition that by the end of the day my lover and I will be no more.

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        • Lol…. Quite funny.
          Thanks for replying  back to me.
          I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.Am totally happy for your reply to. I really enjoyed the reply and again making me feel nice at this very moment

          #PATRICKSTORIES
          Peace ✌and Love ❤

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