TRUE LIFE CONVERSATION: PAST MEMORIES OF A JEALOUS EX LOVER

 

 

 

Here goes the memories of an ex-lover who I had total of 7 hours conservation about her past lover who is married to her best friend in the university.

This memories was written by her, and she gave me to post for her on my blog, after she read about “MY MEMORIE OF LOVE ” I posted here on my blog. She emailed me, I responded. We did a phone call for 3 hours the first day.

The second day she called  4 hours call on Whatsapp about her EX. Finally she asked  if she can write a memories about her ex-lover, so I can post for here. So I told her why not. I told her if she  is ready let her email me the memories about her ex-lover.

The next 3 days she emailed it to me. After taking time to read it. I was touched by her memories. I emailed her back telling her to cut it short because it was about 3 pages.

She replied back the next 2 days with  a page about the memories, she titled it : PAST MEMORIES OF A JEALOUS EX LOVER

Here is her memories about her ex guy, as she started in the E-mail messge she sent to me: 

“””Remember how I would always complain that my head was too big and I’ll crush you but you insisted you didn’t mind and I should place my head on yours?

Like when when you taught me how to  catwalk I still remember that technique you taught me. To place my leg at the front and my thigh should be close to each other…lol…..

I remember the first time I deleted you off and decided to cleanse you out of my system because you were overriding all my senses and I wasn’t used to that.

Somehow you dropped your pride and came looking for me, I remember me saying how I missed you and us holding hands.

I remember how when you asked about what made me so cold, I told you everything  and you just held me close and told me to let it out..

I still remember that day while walking back to your apartment that night suddenly you gave me your blue hood to keep myself warm.

How I kept it ever since and would always wear it even when I wasn’t cold.

I still have that hood  but I still  wear it.

Memories…
I had a lot of that with you.
My friends wouldn’t understand why I live with such memories for so long.

You taught me everything I think I know about being in a relationship.

You taught me to enjoy the little things which life give  me.

You taught me how music was almost equivalent to life.””””

I guess you all are touched and moved  by her reply. If you are touched and moved  I need your response on the comment box.

 

Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!

 

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

www.facebook.com/patrickstories

 

 

 

 

 

 

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66 thoughts on “TRUE LIFE CONVERSATION: PAST MEMORIES OF A JEALOUS EX LOVER

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy right now for such word as i quote””This is so profound and so relevant! Love it.”””

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like memories about your loved one

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    2. yes..infact very often..
      we live in a world ,where people are constantly moving closer ang going away.
      its a world full of heartbreaks and heart fixes, and i myself have lost a lot of friends and loved ones over the years.
      can totally relate!

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    3. Thanks for answering my question. I appreciate that very much.

      I had such people. Some people were trying to console me that period. But i was different from them.

      My character and thinking shows that i really missed that love moment and memories i had about them.

      This what i like in your view about the post
      “”its a world full of heartbreaks and heart fixes””
      Thanks for this lovely answer and reply.
      You welcome dear friend for giving me such an inspiring reply

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  1. She is paying due homage to this man, who taught her well, despite the imperfections of their relationship. I hope you derived some lessons from your own time with her. Each one who comes to us imparts that which is useful.

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    1. Am speechless right now, dnt know what to say right now.

      When I first saw the comment,I have to read to the end. I knew it was going to be a good comment.

      Am the type who reads very inspiring comment on my post.

      For me am the type who engaged in such also. When I saw the message she sent to me on my email I didn’t waste my time in reading it instead I read it like a 5years old.

      You write and explaination are quite OK about me. Am just a simple blogger.

      You just touch my spirit this morning by this word you just said “” I hope you derived some lessons from your own time with her””

      Lastly again,in  backing up what I post and preach here on wordpress i have to post such.

      Your beautiful words you used on my post are noted. Thank you so much for adding such magical drop of words in my jar of motivation.I feel blessed by your comment  right now.

      HAPPY SUNDAY

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy right now for such word as i quote””This is so profound and so relevant! Love it.”””

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like having memories of a loved one that you can’t forget each day?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Thanks for answering my question. I appreciate that very much.

      You welcome dear friend for giving me such a reply

      I guess nothing like love in you dictionary😃😃😃😃😃😃

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    3. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      I guess you find my comment to your post  interesting.

      Wow….so you running from love. But we all need love in our daily life.
      Whether boyfriend love or girlfriend love. Love is love in all.

      What was the experience of your friends?

      Am totally happy you replied back to me.
      Keep the vibes on

      I really enjoyed such repllies.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    4. Thanks for the reply. This days nothing like self love. But first you have to have a self love first before loving or showing love.

      From what you said i guess you will find it hard to love 😁😁😁😁😁😁

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    5. Thanks for replying  back to me.
      I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

      Am totally happy i made you smile with that face 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

      Again that is true. You can bet on it. This is a very good way to start. Try and extend love , self love is cool. But extending it will make people value you the more. At the end of the day you have that MEMORIES OF LOVE i have been talking about.

      I really enjoyed the reply and again making you feel nice at this very moment.

      You welcome dear friend.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Wow, painful,I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like having such memories of loved one?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy right now for such word.

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like having such memories about love yourself?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me here.
      If you say self love is the solution. I still doubt it. Why do people marry. Why do you have interest in a particular something or being?
      Am not saying self love is not good. But extending of such love character around you may touch someone, at the end of the day you have memories to talk about.

      Using the WP as an example if i didn’t show that love to her or cared about her she will not be able to call me and tell me her problems.

      Personally,I still kick against self love idea totally.

      Thanks for your contribution here.Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    2. Thanks for replying  back to me. Thank for the time. You said something about situation.
      What kind of situation are you refering to?

      I hope you answer this please?

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.
      Again, I will love your own contribution here on the this very post.
      Any contributions we be welcome here.

      What are your opinion about having memories of loved one ?
      What your contribution and idealogy on this post?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Thanks for replying  back to me.

      Yeah, the memories of love am talking about is a good one. And again not saying bad one.
      Good memories can’t cause pain except the person is dead.

      I know one cannot hold on to it for a long time. Having that memories show sign of belonging and feeling to that person.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.
      Again, I will love your own contribution here on the this very post.
      Any contributions we be welcome here.

      What are your opinion about memories of a loved one?
      What your contribution and idealogy on this post?
      Lastly you said something like good memories, what are you good memories you had about someone?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

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  2. Thanks for sharing!…

    “The life I touch for good or ill will touch another life, and that in turn another, until who knows where the trembling stops or in what far place my touch will be felt. “
    Friedrich Buechner

    Liked by 3 people

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      Am happy right now for such word as i quote””This is so profound and so relevant! Love it.”””

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?
      Have you ever felt like past memories of a loved one ?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

    2. I always read all the post whether I reply or not and I did find you blog interesting!.. 🙂 yes, indeed, I have memories for those memories help me through the dark days…. 😉 some words from a song come to mind…

      Those were the days my friend
      We thought they’d never end
      We’d sing and dance forever and a day
      We’d live the life we choose
      We’d fight and never lose
      Those were the days, oh yes those were the days

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    3. Thanks for answering my question. I appreciate that very much.

      Thanks for that compliment on my blog. Am happy you notice it and you do read my post.

      This is where i love most as i quote”I have memories for those memories help me through the dark days”Those where god memories i guess.
      Rounding up with this short poem just made the reply look good.😀😀😀

      You welcome dear friend for giving me such an inspiring poem and reply.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.
      Again, I will love your own contribution here on the this very post.
      Any contributions we be welcome here.

      What are your opinion about having memories of loved one?
      What your contribution and idealogy on this post?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.Am happy for such response you gave to me  here.
      Again, I will love your own contribution here on the memories of love.

      Have you heard any before.
      Any contributions here we be welcome.

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Liked by 1 person

  3. I received some notification about being selected for the ‘Peace love award’. Thanks for selecting me. But I am terribly sorry… I can’t find that notification anywhere… Sorry again for replying so late…… 😦 BTW can u send me the link again..?? Thanks in advance and sorry for the inconvenience 🙂

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    1.    I am trying to promote the peace-love award just like the other award we have here on wordpress. You have been selected for this award. I will be happy if you appreciation is showed on the comment box with the link provided below. Again, you follow the criterias for the best 5 nominees of yours also.
      https://patrickrealstories.wordpress.com/2018/04/08/normination-link-for-my-first-50-persons-bloggers-for-the-peace-love-writer-awardfirst-promo/

      Am here again to share a good idea about my award post. I also have good stories you can check on my blog also.

      My latest post is the peace love  writer award. You can check it out and tell me your own view about it.
      Here is the link for the award  post

      https://patrickrealstories.wordpress.com/2018/04/01/creation-of-peace-love-writer-award/

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  4. Relationships are the ultimate interaction between two people. Difficult to maintain as you must both give of yourselves totally moment by moment. To lose that love an ultimate loss.as you lose a part of yourself.Quite painful. It took a lot of courage for this young lady to share from her heart. May she not lose faith, but heal, learn, and in time move on.

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    1. Thanks for replying  back to me.
      I guess you find my replies to your comment interesting.

      I really love and enjoy this part you just said “”It took a lot of courage for this young lady to share from her heart. May she not lose faith, but heal, learn, and in time move on.””

      Am totally happy for your reply. I really enjoyed the reply and again making me feel nice at this very moment

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post,i appreciate that very much.

      I will love to ask you a simple question base on my post.
      What is you contribution about this post?

      What your view about this post?

      Thanks again for reading this post up to the end. I guess you find it interesting.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace and Love

      Like

  5. I can relate to what she was saying about still holding onto memories of a past love. There are good and bad memories that we all have…and at a certain point after we end a relationship with someone, if we are able to, we can stop seeing only the bad and start to see the good again.
    I know that I used to be very angry with my ex…but now I have a peace about it all. It hurts sometimes but I don’t like to hold onto those feelings. I just want to be free of the hurt and let someone else in again.

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    1. Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.
      Your comment always   touches my heart. It is really great to know more about you.I think everyone can relate to your comment.

      Words are powerless to express my gratitude towards you, for reading my every post and for always leaving a thoughtful comment.

      What did you do during that period to avoid having such past bad memories?

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Well part of it was time…I grew up a little and I think that helped me get a different perspective on the whole situation. I just didn’t like being angry or sad every time I thought about my ex…so I learned to forgive over time. I think by forgiving I was able to appreciate the good memories we shared.

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    3. Thank you so much for replying back to me. Thanks for reading my post.That really means a lot to me. After reading your comment I am really feeling blessed by your approach of forgiveness.

      Thank you so much for reading my post and for your nice words.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  6. I think your friend is passing through a genuine phase of acceptance and its beautiful because she is finally accepting that although it didn’t work out, she still gained some beautiful memories/experiences.

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    1. Fantastic and amazing comment. I have been writing a lot lately, so this was just what I needed!
      You are a phenomenal person with such incredible comment like this ” genuine phase of acceptance and its beautiful””” and “”” she still gained some beautiful memories/experiences.

      Am so glad that you commented on it.
      I hope you have a wonderful and relaxing week.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for reading and commenting on the post.

      Here is a nice question:

      Have you ever had love memories about someone?

      You welcome dear friend.Am very please by your comment on this post.

      Thanks again.
      Keep the vibes on.😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Fantastic and  amazing comment.
      You are a phenomenal person with such incredible comment.

      Am happy you are doing fine in your blog.
      Am so glad that you had to comment on it.

      I hope you have a wonderful and relaxing Wednesday

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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