Here goes the memories of an ex-lover who I had total of 7 hours conservation about her past lover who is married to her best friend in the university.
This memories was written by her, and she gave me to post for her on my blog, after she read about “MY MEMORIE OF LOVE ” I posted here on my blog. She emailed me, I responded. We did a phone call for 3 hours the first day.
The second day she called 4 hours call on Whatsapp about her EX. Finally she asked if she can write a memories about her ex-lover, so I can post for here. So I told her why not. I told her if she is ready let her email me the memories about her ex-lover.
The next 3 days she emailed it to me. After taking time to read it. I was touched by her memories. I emailed her back telling her to cut it short because it was about 3 pages.
She replied back the next 2 days with a page about the memories, she titled it : PAST MEMORIES OF A JEALOUS EX LOVER
Here is her memories about her ex guy, as she started in the E-mail messge she sent to me:
“””Remember how I would always complain that my head was too big and I’ll crush you but you insisted you didn’t mind and I should place my head on yours?
Like when when you taught me how to catwalk I still remember that technique you taught me. To place my leg at the front and my thigh should be close to each other…lol…..
I remember the first time I deleted you off and decided to cleanse you out of my system because you were overriding all my senses and I wasn’t used to that.
Somehow you dropped your pride and came looking for me, I remember me saying how I missed you and us holding hands.
I remember how when you asked about what made me so cold, I told you everything and you just held me close and told me to let it out..
I still remember that day while walking back to your apartment that night suddenly you gave me your blue hood to keep myself warm.
How I kept it ever since and would always wear it even when I wasn’t cold.
I still have that hood but I still wear it.
I had a lot of that with you.
My friends wouldn’t understand why I live with such memories for so long.
You taught me everything I think I know about being in a relationship.
You taught me to enjoy the little things which life give me.
You taught me how music was almost equivalent to life.””””
I guess you all are touched and moved by her reply. If you are touched and moved I need your response on the comment box.
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Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka
University of Benin