SHORT WRITE UP–PATRICK VIEW-LET IT GO

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This post or topic have different views depending on the person.  Here is my own personal research on this topic based on our life and people around us. 
I just started with the meaning of let it go
From urban dictionary 
Now let go majorly in to this topic now. 

Let it go, When people walk away from you, let them walk, don’t talk another person into staying with you,don’t talk another person into loving you,don’t talk another person into calling you or caring about you.

don’t talk another person into staying with you, let it go.

when people walk away from you let them walk.

Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left, people leave you because they are not comfortable with you and if they are not comfortable  to you, you can’t make them stay, let them go, and that doesn’t make them bad people,

It just means that their part in your story is over, and you have to know when peoples part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to think about it

You have to know when someone special is  dead, let it go.

When it is over, let it go, stop begging people to stay, let them go.

If you are holding unto something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life then you need to let it go.

If you are holding unto past hurts and pains let it go,

If someone cant treat you right let it go.

If someone has angered you let it go, if you are holding unto some evil taught and revenge let it go.

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction let it go.

You are holding unto a job that no longer meet your needs let it go,

if you have a bad attitude let it go.

If you are judging others to make your self feel better let it go.

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship let it go, if you are trying to help someone who can’t even help himself let it go.

If you are feeling stressed and depressed let it go.

let the past be past, forget the former things let it go.

Think about the future and present.

Here is a question for my fellow bloggers and readers:

what are the things you have let go off?

What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

 

 

Please let me know all your reactions, views and insights in the comment box below!

 

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

www.facebook.com/patrickstories

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56 thoughts on “SHORT WRITE UP–PATRICK VIEW-LET IT GO

  1. Sometimes you have to let go off comments your hear at work, sometimes from customers (very rarely), sometimes in the house / family. I have learned to let go. It is my choice, as to whom I need to explain things, and whether such explanations would do them or me any good. 🙂

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    1. Thank you Mrs, I am most honored by your kind sweet comment.

      Just like this part of the comment

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      Sometimes you have to let go off comments your hear at work, sometimes from customers (very rarely), sometimes in the house / family.

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      I am also glad you enjoyed it while you read. Thank you a million…

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    1. Thank you Mrs, I am most honored by your kind sweet comment.

      Love to ask a simple question.

      1. what are the things you have let go off?

      2. What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

      I am also glad you enjoyed it while you read. Thank you a million…

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  2. Letting go of the anger that would have been pulled up within from all those negative comments which never taught how to correct mistake have proven to be a great benefit mentally and physically.
    Love your post…

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    1. Your comment just touche my heart. It is really great to know more about you.I think everyone can relate to your comment.
      Such a fantastic comment. Thanks alot.

      Love your comment.
      Thank again for showing interest in  my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  3. I could’ve replied to the post earlier when I read it but I didn’t because of the fact that I’m very bad at letting go. I can’t easily give up on people and circumstances, but you’re right sometimes we need to let go, may be that is the way to go at times.
    And yes holding on to things that aren’t meant for us is a waste of time and energy.
    I’ll try to change my attitude towards certain things and like you say, Let Go.
    Wonderful post. Happy day👍

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    1. Thank you so much for reading my post and for leaving such an honest opinion

      I really appreciate and respect your opinion, no matter you agree with me or not.Because your opinion is always valuable to me.

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  4. Thanks for sharing….Change is the law of life and every day one lets go of something, large or small, physical or of the heart and mind… 🙂

    “There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.”
    ― Nancy Stephan

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    1. Your beautiful words just made my day. Thank you so much for adding such magical drop of words in my jar of motivation.I feel blessed by your comment right now.
      I found delight love in what you just said in my post.

      I enjoy that quote
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      There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.

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      Again such a beautiful comment  on my post

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  5. Of course, I am thinking of the song!

    But, letting go of people who can only live drama is so freeing. So peaceful. Some people can only live that way…and that is their choice. I am not to judge, but I will not participate.

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    1. I feel blessed and happy  by your writing and comment on this post right now.

      This first part of your comment  made me smile. I guess i have heard of that song.

      The second part i so much love that

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      But, letting go of people who can only live drama is so freeing.

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      The drama is too much. Only making people get angry. So the best thing is to let go off.

      Lasty, thanks again on what you just commented about this post

      Enjoy the week.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Your comment just touche my heart. It is really great to know more about you.I think everyone can relate to your comment.
      Such a fantastic comment. Thanks alot.

      Love to ask you a simple question–

      1. what are the things you have let go off?
      2. What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

      Love to see your reply.
      Thank again for showing interest in  my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you so much for reading my post and for leaving such an honest opinion.

      I really appreciate and respect your opinion, no matter you agree with me or not.Because your opinion is always valuable to me.

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 2 people

  6. Nothing lasts forever, just like how you learn to accept things you should also learn to let it go, which is the hardest part. I would also like to add that, people come and people go. we make mistakes, so it would be better to give it a shot and re-evaluate it before letting go by making amends and not forcing or begging someone to be with you.

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    1. Thank you so much for reading my post and for leaving such an honest opinion

      I really appreciate and respect your opinion,contribution and views because they are always valuable to me.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 2 people

    1. Thank you so much for reading my post and for leaving such an honest opinion

      I really appreciate and respect your opinion as i quote from you:

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      But the smart thing to do is to let go, forgive and forget.

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      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    2. You welcome dear friend.
      Am very please by your post
      I got a good post about FATE OF A MANGO
      With reference to woman.
      You can check on it now.
      Keep the vibes on.😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  7. Steve Maraboli said: “You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.” These well spoken words put the whole issue of ‘letting go’ in a nutshell and highlight the moral of the story, and that is, humans can never be in control of life! In other words, life has a way of finding its own level and runs its course away from the grasping fingers of mortal beings like us.

    Nice post, and quite inspirational too. Keep it up – Happy blogging! 🙂

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    1. I feel blessed and happy  by your writing and comment on this post right now.

      This first part of your comment touch me:

      Steve Maraboli said: “You must learn to let go.You were never in control anyway.”

      The second part i so much love that as i quote:

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      life has a way of finding its own level and runs its course away from the grasping fingers of mortal beings like us.

      ********************************************

      Lasty, thanks again on what you just commented about this post

      Enjoy the weekend😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      But the smart thing to do is to let go, forgive and forget.

      Liked by 2 people

    1. Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      Love to ask you a simple question–

      1. what are the things you have let go off?
      2. What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

      Love to see your reply.
      Thank again for showing interest in  my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    2. 1. I have let go of negativity from all outlets (opinions, remarks, and hurtful actions). I had to understand that just because something comes with a massive cloud of negativity its up to me to decide whether to stay or step away from it.
      2. Optimistic thinking & clarity

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    3. I feel blessed and happy  by your writing and comment on this post right now.

      This first part of your reply made me smile. I guess i enjoyed such reply about letting off negativity.

      The second part i so much love that reply about being optimistic in your thinking and clarity.

      Lasty, thanks again for taking your time to answer me.

      You welcome.

      Enjoy the weekend.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    4. Yeah very soon. That should be on monday.
      You welcome dear friend.
      Am very please by your answer to the question i asked initially.
      Keep the vibes on.😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

  8. ‘Let it go’ What a beautiful topic to write on!!🖤 It’s very true…. We must let go of something if we want something more important…. Coming to the question, I’ve tried to let go of people who judge me and pass unnecessary comments on my imperfect body…. I’ve gotten rid of those feelings which make me feel inferior in the society…

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    1. Am the type who reads very inspired comment on my post. You comment and explaination are quite OK about the post.

      Your beautiful words just made my day ok now.
      Thank you so much for adding such magical drop of words in my jar of motivation and inspiration. I feel blessed by what you said at the begining of your comment as i quote:
      “”We must let go of something if we want something more important….”””

      Am touch by that quote. This applies to our life, getting something important we have to let go many things according to each person side of life.

      Thanks for answering the question based on the things you have let go off.

      Another lovely part is how you answer your answer based on your body imperfection as i quote from you:
      “”I’ve tried to let go of people who judge me and pass unnecessary comments on my imperfect body…. “”””

      At last am please you move on by giving the thought of ” let go off ”

      Finally, i love the let go off based on your comment at the end- “” I’ve gotten rid of those feelings which make me feel inferior in the society… “”

      I found delight love in what you just said about yourself in the comment session.
      Again such a beautiful way to express it on my blog/post
      Keep the vibes on.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

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    2. Thanks for the reply. I appreciate that very much.
      You welcome dear friend.

      You are free to check on my blog for the latest post. You will find touching and inspirational one there.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Like

  9. Patrick ✌ Well written post. Sometimes you have to let go of things .. First we may be not so happy with that decision.. But destiny will bring you better things than the ones you let go. 🙌

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  10. Let it go nice topic by d way,I have learnt to let go becos if u don’t u end up hurting and bring ur self down for pple love ur self and d pple around u if dey go let dem go it was Neva meant to b.just b ur self

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you so much for reading my post and for leaving such an honest opinion

      I really appreciate and respect your opinion, no matter you agree with me or not.Because your opinion is always valuable to me.

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 1 person

    1. I just skimmed through your comment amd the post about SPIN A STORY. And I must say, it really cool, it that gives people a chance to think.

      Please keep the words coming Aarzoo, Look forward to seeing more comment  from you.

      Thank you so much for stopping by and for reading my post. Lastly for picking my blog for such a thoughtful story.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Like

    1. Your comment are good on this post. It is really great to know more about you.Thanks alot.

      Love to ask you a simple question–

      1. what are the things you have let go off?
      2. What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

      Love to see your reply.
      Thank again for showing interest in  my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Liked by 2 people

    1. Thanks for the compliment.

      Love to ask you a simple question–

      1. what are the things you have let go off?
      2. What was your state of being when you decided to let go off those things?

      Love to see your beautiful and nice reply.
      Thank again for showing interest in  my post.

      #PATRICKSTORIES
      Peace ✌and Love ❤

      Like

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