PATRICK VIEW-DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

WHAT IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? According to Wikipedia Domestic violence (also named domestic abuse or family violence) is violence or other abuse by one person against another in a domestic setting, such as in marriage or cohabitation. It may be termed intimate partner violence when committed by a spouse or partner in an intimate relationship against […]

PATRICK VIEW : MISCONCEPTION ABOUT PRIDE — POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE SIDE

Good morning, everybody! Pride!                         Pride!!                           Pride!!! I feel like this can often conflict with what we are taught in society these days. Society tells us to have pride in our work, pride in our actions, and pride in our nation, pride in our kids, and pride in our achievements. After much reading, I was able […]

CHILD MARRIAGE – MEANING, CAUSES, EFFECTS AND SOLUTIONS

    Uniqueresearching.com MEANING– According to Wikipedia definition of child marriage; Child marriage is a formal marriage or an informal union entered into by an individual before reaching a certain age, specified by several global organizations such as UNICEF as minors under the age of 18. The term child marriage is used to refer to […]

TITLELESS

This is something I just wrote. Well, not exactly. More like something I just completed. It’s a new week and its Monday I have to think again.Its really short, I don’t even know what to title it. It just came to my head now. Am surprise am thinking about it now . But enjoy it. […]

PATRICK VIEWS – 8 ARGUMENTS TO DISPROVE THE FACT THAT WOMEN BELONG IN THE KITCHEN

  Here is an essay i saw a couple of weeks ago on the internet. i was so annoyed by the essay that i have to deduce some error and inconsistency in the essay. I DO NOT support these views. From the essay i have been able to bring out 8 argument towards the essay with my own proves […]

A PERSONAL VIEW OF GENDER NORMS

WHAT ARE NORMS? Norms are regarded as collective representations of acceptable group conduct as well as individual perceptions of particular group conduct. They can be viewed as cultural products (including values, customs, and traditions) which represent individuals’ basic knowledge of what others do and think that they should do. Norms are vital determinants of social […]

A  VIEW ON KINDNESS: MEANING, BENEFITS, PRACTISE AND INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES

  MEANING According to Wikipedia: Kindness is a behaviour marked by ethical characteristics, a pleasant disposition, and concern and consideration for others. It is considered a virtue, and is recognized as a value in many cultures and religions. Kindness is a trait many people consider key to being a good person, but it can be taken […]

PATRICK VIEW- THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING

THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING What is positive thinking? Positive thinking is a mental attitude in which you expect good and favorable results. In other words, positive thinking is the process of creating thoughts that create and transform energy into reality. A positive mind waits for happiness, health and a happy ending in any situation. […]

PATRICK VIEW: A SPECIAL FRIEND AND THEIR QUALITIES

  Everybody has that special person they call they special friend who is always around to talk and chat with. From my views, i was able to note some specific things i found in that my special friend. Here goes an analogy about that special person i call my special friend. ******************************* Last time you […]

AN OVERVIEW OF GENDER ROLES AND STEREOTYPES- AGENTS, EFFECTS AND WAYS TO COMBAT IT.

GENDER VS. SEX You announced your sex to the world the minute you were born, if not before through sonogram photos. Your genitals showed whether you were a male or a female. If someone were to do a DNA test when you were born, your genetic code would have also revealed whether you were biologically […]

THE CAULDRON

THE CAULDRON Next to the cauldron Is my corpse I hear my father saying “Isabella,you wrapped your hands Around me and slept beside me, I brought you very early close to the cauldron, Waiting for your return, But you lit the cauldron up in huge flames Unlike your mother Your cauldron was already boiling “your […]

POEM: MARCH 8

MARCH 8   It’s the day to celebrate It’s the day to think For all that the world have done To the charming colour pink They blocked off her way They chased her that day They stormed all her life Her blurred eyes did say They found her so helpless They made her to cry […]

A VIEW OF FEMINISM: PLUMCOT

  PLUMCOTS It is parentageThat engraves my names on the pillarIt was not the amount of caloriesNor was it the number of ribsLike Eve in the gardenIf the fruit had the supposed knowledge Then who knew firstsLike Adam, if his rib was takenThen where was the ribI felt I had more caloriesBecause I am more […]

FATE OF WOMEN – THE FOUR BROKEN MIRRORS (TALES)

THE FOUR BROKEN MIRRORS (TALES)     THE GOLDEN MIRROR I was once beautiful, perfectly sculpted with gold clothing My face clearer than the springs, smiles radiated from me She greeted me naked, clothed, happy and I in turn showed her perfection She was fulfilled and safe as was i, hidden from the faces of […]

IN HONOUR OF WOMEN

In Honour Of Women They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy. They laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up for injustice. They don’t take “no” for an answer when they believe there is a […]

A VIEW ON WOMAN IN THE SOCIETY-FATE OF A MANGO FRUIT

FATE OF A MANGO FRUIT Finally it fell down But nobody noticed it It started a decaying process They noticed, but it was late Its beauty become a stench Decomposition was not optional What would it have done? To hang loose on its mother and still decompose? Or fall to the ground and still decompose? […]

OSCILLATION

Who can tell me where Maria is? At the cold end of Ikogosi spring I looked at the flow of this cold spring I thought Maria sitting by the side of this cold spring But this cold end of my Ikogosi Became an ocean current It was an endless search in My pacific ocean I […]

SPOKEN WORDS CAN’T BE RETRIEVED

  A farmer insulted his neighbor. Realizing his mistake, he went to the preacher to ask for forgiveness. The preacher told him to take a bag of feathers and drop them in the center of town. The farmer did as he was told.  Then the preacher asked him to go and collect the feathers and […]

PATRICK VIEW: A SPECIAL FRIEND

Everybody has that special person they call they special friend who is always around to talk and chat with. From my views, i was able to note some specific things i found in that my special friend. Here goes an analogy about that special person i call my special friend.   ******************************* Last time you […]

PATRICK VIEWS- YOU ARE WHAT YOU DO

  I look at successful billionaires and always ask this question, what did they do different? How did they achieve this much success and money? People usually say “It all destiny, they were lucky”. I could take any answer for my questions, but not when destiny is involved. I am a strong believer that everyone makes their own […]

PATRICK VIEW -THE MINDSET OF DON’T QUIT

  Over the time, i personally discovered that there is no  finish line in the race of life.Every body has different stages of living it. What a life! Life is full of twists, turns, ups and downs, surprises and disappointments. Life offers each and everyone of us different opportunities and once an opportunity is lost, […]

SHORT WRITE UP–PATRICK VIEW-LET IT GO

This post or topic have different views depending on the person. Here is my own personal research on this topic based on our life and people around us. I just started with the meaning of let it go From urban dictionary let it goMeans to forget something. Now let go majorly in to this topic […]

PATRICK VIEW:THERE IS NO THING AS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

It doesn’t exist and don’t even tell me you believe in it without a proper explanation. Whatever happens on the first meeting is ATTRACTION and not love Meeting someone for the first time,something must attract you to them. It could be their way of speaking,dance steps,dressing or smiles. It doesn’t mean you love them,it only […]

PATRICK VIEW- CIRCLE OF FRIENDS

Talking about circle of friends, i found this quote very inspiring: If someone wants to walk out of your life…. LET THEM GO especially when you have done your best, You have put in your Time, your Energy and have been the best person to them. They say “You don’t know what you have till […]

PATRICK VIEW : MISCONCEPTION ABOUT PRIDE — POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE SIDE

Good morning, everybody! Pride!                         Pride!!                           Pride!!! I feel like this can often conflict with what we are taught in society these days. Society tells us to have pride in our work, pride in our actions, and pride in our nation, pride in our kids, and pride in our achievements. After much reading, I was able […]

TRUE LIFE CONVERSATION: PAST MEMORIES OF A JEALOUS EX LOVER

      Here goes the memories of an ex-lover who I had total of 7 hours conservation about her past lover who is married to her best friend in the university. This memories was written by her, and she gave me to post for her on my blog, after she read about “MY MEMORIE […]

DON’T LOSE YOURSELF

Sometimes I Ponder on these things base on my personal views about life and reality; Many people lose themselves in search of what is missing in their lives. Many lose their moral limb while searching for the “missing rib”! Some lose their health while searching for material wealth. Some have lost their integrity while looking […]

NORMINATION LINK FOR MY FIRST 80 PERSONS/BLOGGERS FOR THE PEACE-LOVE WRITER AWARD(FIRST PROMO)

When I started out my patrickrealstories blog on the 1st November 2015, I never thought that i will come up with this idea of CREATION OF PEACE-LOVE WRITER AWARD !!! The nominees here are just as a promo for the award. But the criteria for it remain the same. The nominees here are just bloggers i norminated as […]

CREATION OF PEACE-LOVE WRITER AWARD

Peace-Love Writer Award is created by Blogger PATRICKSTORIESon the 1st of April 2018. The award was created because of the spreading of peace and love image used by PATRICKSTORIES Again the passion which Patrick stories intend to touch peoples life through his writings and works about peace and love. The Peace-Love Writer Award is an […]

MY VIEW ABOUT INTEGRITY AND THE PEOPLE AROUND

  What do I really mean by having integrity…that’s the question here. This clearly means what you hold up to. what people around you see you as and your relationship with them,what you are known for,what speaks for you even in your absence, those attribute that just distinguishes you among the crowd. Your integrity is […]

PATRICK VIEW ABOUT LIVING A VIRTUOUS LIFE

A complete education demands not only training of the intellect/students but also training of the inner mind as well. And this simply means the formation of character is as important as the acquisition of knowledge. Again the intellectual ability, is no proof that we will be able to master the difficulty of life and the […]

SHATTERED FRIENDSHIP/RELATIONSHIP-CAUSES,EFFECTS AND ITS SOLUTIONS

Everything seems to interact in order for them to live with satisfaction, and in this way we create unintentional relationships that may lead to intimate companionship. Likewise, friendship would mean so special to both of you, may all of a sudden turn to nothing and back to strangers again. It is really true that when […]

LESSONS ABOUT LIFE-PATRICK VIEW

I learned something new today. You see, in life, nobody is going to help you, nobody is going to help you do what you love the most and nobody is going to help your dream, your career but yourself. Nobody is going to help your life. But someone will surely help you someday, not every […]

THE CONCEPT OF SPENDING TIME ALONE

Hi peeps,buddies and my fellow bloggers. There have just been a lot of exciting things going on lately in my life, which I will probably share with you guys. Have you ever had one of those days to spend time alone and think about the things in life? Today, I wanted to discuss something that has been on […]

PATRICK VIEW ABOUT TOMORROW

So many things about the human race is that no one knows tomorrow, the future. This reality, many would have changed it, if it were possible. Tomorrow is like a vast area of land with many precious gifts and natural resources waiting to be tapped. Some are very smart enough to know how to approach tomorrow […]

10 THINGS THAT INSPIRE PATRICK TO WRITE

  When I get asked “What inspires you to write”, I don’t always have a ready answer because inspirations don’t just flow through a single Channel. Inspiration is everywhere! The word itself came from a Latin phrase “inspirare” which means, “to inflame, to blow or to breathe into”. God is the ultimate inspiration and such inspiration that […]

PATRICK CONCEPT OF BLESSINGS: SIMPLE WAY TO BLESS OTHERS

  We are blessed to be a blessing to others. Here are some simple ways to challenge yourself to do this: Intentionally bless three people each week through words, gifts, or actions. Be creative. Here are some ideas:   Spend some time with a friend who is having a rough week.   2. Help a […]

PATRICK TROUBLED THOUGHTS

  I remember those thoughts Those thoughts I usually had When I felt rejected and unwanted Those thoughts That I was never good enough Those thoughts That I was no one I remember those sorry thoughts Those sorrowful thoughts Thoughts that keep repeating Thoughts that made my heart heavy Thoughts that broke me Thoughts that […]

PATRICK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES ABOUT NATURE

  People go through malls to admire the beautiful architecture but on their way, they ignore the beautiful works of nature. See how people flood Dubai to check out a huge aquarium? Nobody notices the Hibiscus, or the little flowers around the environment.   As a child back then i notice the blue and white cloud in […]

THE 2018 KNOCK

    Today’s write up begins with an illustration… I hope you have the patience to read through till the very end. Kpom Kpom Kpom The 2018 knock continued…………… This WRITE UP “the 2018  knock” goes beyond the ordinary knock we know about. It’s a new year and we get this knock in different areas of […]

PATRICK VIEWS ON KARMA

  Karma, Nature’s most consistent employee Karma brings consequences without notifications like Facebook or instagram or whatsapp…lol Kill your conscience, murder happiness, do wickedness and then flee? Within a seconds karma can destroy some fortune and all will be lost. This karma doesn’t let go, run to the mountains or the high seas. Karma watches, Karma sees, Karma’s […]

A VIEW ON THE ART OF PROCRASTINATION

Procrastination is an Art..Yes it is!! Its the art of doing things which are less important instead of doing things which are more important. Like take an example of right now, as you are reading this blog, isn’t there anything that you are supposed to do instead which is more urgent? But now since your […]

PATRICK TALES OF 2017

    It has been a very long and interesting year for me. At the same time it has been really rough, way below my expectations. New Year resolutions are something I don’t do. I just go with being myself. I however set goals I would love to accomplish by the end of the year. 2017 started on a very […]

MY PERSONAL VIEW ON FAMILY

From Wikipedia definition : A family (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated either by consanguinity (by recognized birth), affinity (by marriage or other relationship), or co-residence (as implied by the etymology of the English word “family”) or some combination of these. Secondly the word “family” can be used metaphorically to create more inclusive categories such as community, nationhood, global village, and humanism. Based on my personal reflection […]

PATRICK VIEW-POSSIBLE THINGS TO DO  TO HELP YOU LET GO

    Letting go by Cambridge dictionary means:to stop thinking about or being angry about the past or something that happy in the past.  Urban dictionary :to let your frustration, anger etc go and not let it stress you out like it has been doing. Letting go means you don’t have to stress over whatever […]

TRUE LIFE STORY:  THE GIRL WHO ONCE LIVED

Do you ever go through the contacts on your phone and wonder, “I am alone”. Does it ever worry you sometimes that, “what if i died, how fast would people get over me?” “Am i important to anyone?” Has it ever occurred to you, “What if i died right now, would anybody even notice?” Well, […]